First time poster, only found this site today and its been very informative so far. I am wondering if anyone can give me advice, especially if you also had similar worries.For about a week now my family jewels have been giving me a bit of gip. Theyve been aching and a bit tender so ive decided to make an appointment at the doctors. Now, i have absolutley no qualms about letting the doc have a good ol' rummage round down there to see what the problem is but one thing i am worried about is getting an erection. In no way do i find the situation erotic or sexy (i can think of better ways to spend a thursday afternoon afterall) but i always seem to get an erection at the worst possible times (mainly when im nervous and trying to concentrate on not having one; my dick sticks 2 fingers up and stands to attention anyway). Has anyone else had similar worries or even actually had an erection during an examination. Obviously the doctor wouldnt burst out laughing or anything as they are proffessional but will they get offended or refuse to carry on until youve calmed down, so to speak. Is it a common occurrence? I would hate to think my doctor thinks ive got the hots for them.My second worry is that my family doctor is a young female and i must say pretty attractive. This will make matters only worse i feel so i am wondering is it possible to make the appointment with a male doctor if you want to and how understanding would they be if i wanted to do that?Thanks for any help, cya.
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Doctor examination - a few worries
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Yeah - I get what you mean. I bet all guys have or think the same thing might happen to them they go to the doctor to get there equipement checked out for any reason at all. How old are you? If you are still a teenage its perfectly normal to get a boner at the "drop of a hat" which can cause problems.I think its pretty natural of someone statrs feeling you up you would get a boner. Even though this would be a medical exan and nothing sexaul about it there would still be strong possibity that you will get a boner. Nothing admomral about that at all.I guess if you are a bit worried about the female doc thing you might be able to request a male doct abut I guess depending on age and stuff your parents might not agreee to change the doc for just one visit. If you are old enough to go to doc and make appoiment yourself and if you think you will be more confortable with a male doc I suggest you ask if you can change for this time. HOWEVER as you have said the docs are profenssional and would see the male equipement all the time.AS fpr getting a boner at the docs!! It has happend a couple times here. NOt the best situation to be in, but I was haveing a ulltra siund on the balls and it happen. I was around 18 and was really embrassed. One time was with female tech and the other a male tech did it. Still embrasssing though.HOWEVER all this is nothing to worry about man - if you feel you have a problem down there it is way better to get it checked out and get the all clear - even if you will be a little embrassed abut the actual exam.Hope all goes will.
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I'm 19 and a few weeks ago I had to take a physical with a female doctor. It was the most thorough physical I have ever had and I ended up totally naked at the end. And yes I did get a boner. She was very professional about it and did not comment or anything. Like others have said just swallow your embarrassment and get checked out.
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nothing to worry about. It will only take a minute. The doc is not going to take time to fondle you. He or she will have you drop your pants and underwear, give a quick visual inspection, check your balls and may glance at your penis. they can tell everything they need in just a second. Before you know it, it will be over and you will be pulling your pants back up. If you pop a boner, it is no big deal. They have seen it before and it will just confirm to them that everything is working properly.Good luck and let us know if something is wrong.John
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Hey bro - don't give it another thought. Yes, we all worry or wonder if our lil soldier is going to decided to jump up and take a look around. Chances are it might happen - if so, she'll be professional about it, remember they see this all the time and know how sensitive our penis can be. You raise a bigger question though - maybe it is time to consider a male doctor. I think sometimes its just more comfortable. Talk with your parents about that and let them know how you feel. Good luck and let us know what you find out bud.
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it wud be a good idea to hav a good old bash just before u go. this will lower the chances of gettin hard at the docs