Dude seriously man I've had enough.

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i don't know what to do, people seem to single me out for abuse, like peeps in school at mo, think its fun to try to cover me in ink, si i come home and me ma has a go at me cos the ink won't come out and my face is covered, fair enough. but nobody seems to listen when i say stop, i ask me friend for a pen and flick it back being all immature like, but it don't help. and dis one kid at skool, i had a perfect chance to get him back, but i found i couldnt, its like i physically couldnt bring myself to get im back

people will treat you exactly like you let them.
grow some balls and put a stop to it.
someone no matter who, a buddy or not, put ink on me, Id bust thier fucking skull. a palm of your hand to the base of the nose and a punch to the throat has put many many peope down by hand. peope wil shit on you as long as you take it.

There are a few things you can do. One, ignore it. Bully’s LOVE the attention they get when picking on people. Once they realize you don’t care they’ll move on. Trust me it works, I used it many times when I was younger. I am not saying not to stick up for yourself and defend yourself, but know when the battle with worth it.Secondly, let your teachers know and let them handle the situation. And no one give me the shit “it's Tattling". No it's called the teachers responsibility to handle problems and to control the students. Teachers are there not to just educate you but to also keep you safe.

peope wil shit on you as long as you take it. I don't always agree with that because most people are craving attention and if they continue to get attention from an action they will continue doing it. If they get no reaction they get bored and move on.

what I know is tht people dont fuck me more then once. I deal withthem the first time they try to shit on me and they dot repeat it as they already know whats going to happen the next time the do it.

Though I agree I am sure no one messes with you anymore hehe... I don't think violence is the solve-all either. Certainly not saying it WON'T work, but I don't think it's the best FIRST solution.

kick some shit out of one of them that'll scare the hell out of the restgo to a teacher and tell themtell your parentsjust dont let it carry on mate

if I was going with those options, Id say the mace, they make it with a chemical dye in it that can be seen under a black light so that cant deny it if they dot get caught up with for a while. also Iv been maced and peppered, while niether is pleasant, Id rather get pepered again then fucking maced.

if you have immature friends like that, then go find some new friends. and if the current situation is bothering you, then go get some adult to stop this.

Sad we all promote violence instead of maturity.Lord I really miss Damien.

If you're going to react to them then do something that will make them think twice about doing it again. Don't show that you're irritated and that they are getting to you. Ntroducing is right, bullies crave getting a reaction. If they know they're getting under your skin then they'll keep doing it. If you are going to do something though, be sure to let them know that they're not going to piss around with you. Make it clear that you're not a pushover.I wish I could give better advice, but dealing with situations like this is one of my great weaknesses. I'm not the most witty person when it comes to making retorts, and I'm too hesitant in my actions. I've been in your situation many times. What I do know is that showing that you're getting pissed off, and not doing anything to stop them, is exactly what they are looking for. You either suck it up and don't show ANY notice of it, or you make it such a big deal that it won't be worth doing in their eyes. EDIT: The people doing that to you aren't good friends. I had good friends. Since gr. 8, I hardly ever have a person in any of my classes who I could have called a good friend. Kind of sucks how that works out. The upside is that I've realized who are my actual friends and who the people are that I hanged out with just because I needed a "friend" in class. You've got to realize who is actually a good friend to you because the friends you described don't seem to deserve anything more than your fist.I don't deal with people that treat me like crap anymore. It's not worth it and there are far better people. That will lend itself to being respected more, which gives you more respect for yourself. When you respect yourself, other people respect you more. It's a cycle, you've just got to figure out where it starts.

I have a couple issues with your post, nothing major, just my opinion. I agree with most of it just a few things I think ya got slightly wrong:>> bullies crave getting a reactionthats 100% true but life has shown me that they do not crave getting punche as that reaction, they prefer the cowering victem and hte laughs they get from everyone else thena punch in the snout.The one other thing is that I have good friends that screw with me here and there.we do horrid things to each other sometimes painful things that leave scars when shit goes to far or gets out of hand, I still count them as friends and best friends at that.its never a malicious attack, and it often times involved embarrassment.the key is is it done in good humor with some risk or is it done just be be an ass to you.those same people that do horrid shit to me and I to them have also been the ones that drove 2 hours out of htier way 3 times a week to bring me smokes and food when I was laid up at home with a broken leg and couldnt drive a stickf, fthe smae ones who when my shoulder was torn out from work, drove an hour in heavy traffic on thier day off ot bring then install a starter and battery in my car and not worry about when I was going to pay them back, I paid them back for the record on pay day that was still a week off. it was snowing like a bastarfd and they layed outside in the slush under my car coverd in oil and grease and shit freezig to make sure I got home again. the starter was 160 bucks and the battery another 80, they never thought twice about it and when I came over to pay them they asked me if I was sure I could afford it or if I needed to make payments. those bastards would do anything for me, and I for them, we just like to give each other alot of shit inbetween those times we are called upon to do the friend part. Iv driven 50 milesinto town to pick up one guy because his car was dead and spent my night in a parking to replacing the brake cables and rotor so he could drive his car, not to mention the 2 hour drive south to get to a store that had the parts in stock for his car.f I happen to think its ok for friends to fuck each other around a bit inthe name of fun, and still be best friends despite some of the shit thats gone wrong between us in the name of horseplay.liek I said I think its all in the original intent as well as the other times spent together that decides if they are friends or just some asshole i know.as I said, not major disagreements with your post, jsut a few things that I thought needed clarifing and maybe an explanation. but in all just opinions.

I get what you mean, but I guess I just assumed them to be poor friends since he was desribing them as always singling him out to be abused and all that.As far as the punching thing, I've wished many times that I had just turned around and smoked a good number of people in the face. I can only say I've done it once, although there were a bunch of other guys around (locker room after phys ed) so they got in the way before anything big started. Funny enough, that same guy turned out to be less of an ass now and although I wouldn't really consider us to be friends we get along well in the class I now have with him. I've never been in a full fight, and I both am happy about that and regret it. I'm really not sure what the best course of action is, and often times I feel like a weak person because of that. Not necessarily because I'm trying to avoid a fight, but because I don't know how to deal with situations like that and it's lent itself to some tough times I had in junior high.Hey, don't worry about picking out some of the loose threads in my post. You make a good point and it's all constructive.

That helps, but I have low esteem I guess about my ability to punch 'em, and punch em hard so they dont just laugh at me and I dont look like a dick. People have said u no why he does it to ya? (some kid) because he knows u wont react, and he knows anyone else will hit the shit into him. thats what u need to do. where do i draw the line between i dont like violence (Even though its happened to me) and "stop being a fag and fcukin hit them!!". I've only got a week in school left, i've told teachers, they havent helped although when summut happened today and a teach asked (u want me to take this further and get senior management), i said no because i didnt want people to think of me as a tell tale and hate me which is a dumb thing to say,
Either i ignore it or its 30 press ups a night to get me arms ready to smash his face in, but is that mature?

if you're not big on physical retaliation you can get loud, like get up in people's faces. make your face go red and your veins stand out, clench your teeth and scream you're a psycho and you think you're a vampire and you'll bite them in the neck. So get loud, scare them, jump up on a chair, pick up furniture and fling it around, wave your arms and yell, etc.

NEVER make the bully think that you are being bothered by what they are doing to you, otherwise they have won. And if you're gonna go psycho, go the full nine. If someone hits you, pick something up and smack them with it all whilke yelling at the top of your lungs, it'll throw the person off and scare the fuck out of it, read it in anarchist cookbook and tried it in real life.

blackmail is also effective, if you have any info on the person they'd rather not share.

this is fine advice if you go to a school without gangs. im not saying the person who started this thread does, but i do, and to beat someone up doesnt work because they just get an older person to beat you up, or have their friends jump in

If you cant hurt him physicially then attack emotionaly. or do the blackmail thing...either way.

what makes you think I never dealt with gangs?because im inthis shit hole utah?gangs have spread everywhere across the land. alot of califfornia moved to utah and brought the crypts and bloods with them. you still have to stand up for yourself or your going to look back your whole life knowing your scared to live and I couldnt deal with knowing I wa a pussy each time I look inthe mirror. Iv had my ass beat, but I always stand up for myself.gangs are really big pussys, fthey only are bad in numbers, for the most part its memebers do not have teh fucking balls to stand on thier own, they always want help. I stand on my own, I take care of myself and I dont need my friends to fight my fights for me. Now if more then 3 of anything come at me at oncef, I appreciate a hand, but I dont require my buddies to stand up for myself.