Paranoid of a break-up

---

I've recently just got a girlfriend -I'm male, 14- and everything is/was going great. We've been going out for maybe 5 days and I am already paranoid of a break-up, the whole line "I just would like it if we were friends". I know how to keep a girl intrested, we tease each other and everything, I stay romantic and I have a good sense of humor (I've been told).

It all started when I went to her softball game (she doesn't like it at all) and she seemed tense which made me worried. Which probably made me stop being funny because she wasn't laughing enough which made me try to hard to make her laugh by telling bad jokes. The next day she seemed fine and she laughed a lot more than usual.
I am just so confused, I fear breaking-up, although I think everyone does. Is it normal to think this?

Its normal to feel insecure that early in the relationship.

I think its totally normal. Ive been dating my bf for 8 and half months and i still sometimes think hes going to break up with me. I guess its just one of those things

She may well have been tense at the softball game because she didn't think she was good at it and she was afraid of making a fool of herself in front of you.

It is a normal fear hon yes, however, worrying about it, can cause you to act differently - too full on or trying too hard for example - then it becomes a self fulfilling worry, you would cause the break up to happen by your actions.............does that make sense? LOLEnjoy your time together, if you two are going to split then worrying won't change it...........it will just ruin the time you have together. enjoy and go with the flow.

Everything is turning out great again. I think it was all in my mind, as always.

Angelwitch its 2:47 a.m. and you just answered my questions, I too have been a little paranoid about a break up, so I should just not worry about it, hey it happens it happens, but me and my girlfriend are happyly been dating for 5 months now.