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Hi! Why is it that all the girls say that they like big dick and but when they see a big dick they dont want to do anything with it?

that's not me, i like it and enjoy it

What people say and what they really think can be very different - especially if it's something they say in front of their friends, when people often say what they think they are expected to say. The girls who say they want big dick may not in fact want sex at all at the moment.Seeing that you've had this happen more than once, it's possible that you are approaching the thing wrongly. If you just pull it out and say, "How about it?", there won't be many girls, even the hornier ones, who will feel sufficiently aroused. Girls need courting!Of course, it's also possible you have a monster that is truly scary.

these girls go to my school and they are like 16. one of them started talking about that this one guy that she was with was small and that she liked big guys and all the other two girls agreed with her.I didnt pull it out or say anything untill after that with one of them.I am not that big or scary.

How big is monstrus? I read somewhere on the web that no dick is to big for a vagina!

A couple of things here:The girl who said that, may have been experienced, or she may have just been wanting to sound like she was, or sound like she was more sophisticated than she was. Wanting more size, by the way, is also a convenient way for a girl to avoid sex altogether. She can say, "You're not big enough for me" and appear to be an experienced woman, when actually she's scared of the whole thing.The other two girls just agreed. That really means nothing at all. Girls nearly always say they agree with each other, because that's the way female bonding works. They support each other verbally to their faces, no matter what they really think. It's like the way they tell each other how great their hairstyle, clothes, etc, look.I suspect you didn't approach it the right way afterwards. Getting in bed with a girl is a long procedure, which most often starts with a relationship. Most girls (there are exceptions) aren't keen on casual sex. Even those who do like casual sex still expect a lead-up to it.About the size issue - it's more a psychological thing than physical. Too long (over 8"?) and it might not all fit in, and attempts to get it all in may cause her unpleasant pain; but you can always just not use it all. Too much thickness can be painful - the argument that a baby comes out there is true, but when a baby comes out the vagina is heavily relaxed with strong hormones. However you would have to be quite unusually thick for that to be a serious long-term problem - most women can get used to most thicknesses.

Thanx for answering!So all they said was BS!dose it make a diffrence how old they are?

Only, I think, to the extent that a younger person is more likely to say what she thinks is the "right" thing to say, and less likely to be actually experienced.

I mean will they grow downthere or is this problem for all ages?

Can I ask how big you are?

7 1/2 inches and almost 6 girth

While that's certainly big, I don't think it is inconveniently big. Nearly all mature women should be able to handle it, both length and girth, with a bit of practice.

Most 16 year old girls are pretty near adult size, but their experience is likely to be limited. A woman's first time - at any age - is often difficult, with some pain, because the tension tends to cause tightening up. In some other threads here you can read about problems some women here have had, and what they have done about it.

So am I going to have Problems with other girls?

I don't think you need to worry that you are physically handicapped. First time sex always needs gentleness, even with a smaller than average penis. I think the important issue, where you may need to do some work, is how you relate to girls, how you talk to them.

you're fine, stop worrying about it, you're not abnormally large

I have another questionHow deep should I go in? What should I do?

Spend plenty of time working up to it.Once you've got in, you should be able to use the whole length with nearly all women.

its ok, nice size, ive had bigger but that is a nice size, dont worry