ok this is a weird situation. i am bi (guy) but for all i know my friend is striaght (guy) and i like him, so what should i do? or should i do nothing?
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Asking a friend out?
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does he know your bi?if not caually(sp?) ask his opinon on homo/bisexuality.if he says he okay with it,tell him your bi then ask about him.then go from there.
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i personally wouldn't do it, cause if he's not gay/bi, then ur friendship will never be the same again.
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It sounds like he doesn't know you're bi. So find out his attitudes toward gays first--watching a movie together ... talking about a known gay ... commenting on some news event ... talking about some actor ... asking, "Do you think so-and-so is gay?"
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u risk looseing a frendship over this
unfortunanly these days, alot of young males dont want 2 b associated with and gay ppl cuz they dont want ppl 2 think that they r also gay.
ive asked guys this "if * insert name of guy in group* was gay, would u still be his friend"and i got a whole lota "no"s. they said they didnt want him 2 b attracted to them. hopefully ur friend will b more exepting but i guess it is wise 2 "test the waters"1st 2 determain his stance on homosexuality and bisexuality. -
well my friend doesn't know i am bi but i asked him about what he thought about gay, bi, etc and hes doesn't care if a person is or not but i am still a bit worried about the whole thing, but hes such a great guy so..
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If he values your friendship strongly then tell him you are bi-sexual. If he doesn't want to be friends with you, then what does that say about him? You don't have to tell him that you have feelings for him, just get the sexuality issue out of the way and see what happens. In fact, many years ago when I was 17, my bestfriend told me he was homosexual and that he liked me. I didn't shoot him down in flames and had more respect for him as it probably took alot of courage to tell me that!