I've always assumed that either you're uncircumsized or circumzied. It wasn't until recently that I learned even uncut males can pull back their foreskin. Mine, unfortunately takes a while to maneuver. I haven't tried it because I've felt the head of my penis at one point during an erection and when my finger graced the tip, it felt VERY.. I don't know. It just FELT! I got a great stimulation, but it wasn't pleasure. Anyway, I've sort of been avoiding pulling back the foreskin, because it is very difficult for me (especially because it hurts), and also because I am just not used to doing that to my penis. After I pull it back, will the loose skin just dangle on the end after I push the skin back? During sex, is the foreskin pulled back automatically due to the motion and the tightness of the vagina?
Hey bud, the head of your penis is going to be very sensitive and almost painful to the touch for a while. The more you stimulate, rub or touch it, the less sensitive it will be. I'd say you should work at some stretching or at least make sure that you're able to retract it enough to clean under there on a daily basis to prevent a buildup of smegma. Take a look around on this thread for some info and tips.
Oh boy do you have some worries.
first and foremost remeber the foreskin / penis is a highly resiliant instrument and can take quite a beating (no pun intended before anybody starts).
Okay we need to establish your age and development really because there are a few factors relevant to 'pulling back' the foreskin.
Yes you can pull it back all the way!! the skin right at the end of your foreskin (where it folds back in) you should be able to pull right back to your pubic bone (where willy meets body) It is actually a requirement to do this to avoid the build up of smegma.
But as I have said at the start, dependant on age / development depends on how much of your foreskin is still attached.
When you were born the foreskin is adhered to the glans (bell end) of your dick. As you get older this will slowly wear away with playing :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: Erections etc. This may still be adhered at the age of 20. Also when peeing it is recommended you retract the foreskin to keep this a bit cleaner.
For further info on all this could I suggest you go to thread in male genitalia on Foreskin stretching (4th from top) and read all the posts there, they will probably answer most of your questions and generate some more.
Anyway look forward to your response
I'm just afraid that if I attempt to pull it back, the hole that the head of the penis is trying to push through might tear. Is it best to push the foreskin back when erect or not erect?
Hey bud, it isn't going to tear so don't worry about that. I'd say you need to take a look at the stretching information on that thread, warm/hot soaking baths and gently push it onto and over the head as it allows. Best to try when flaccid but understand that at some point you'll want to be able to do this without problems when erect as well.
What if you don't want to completely pull back your foreskin, only to clean under there, but not during sex? I just don't feel comfortable with pulling it all the way back. When erect, only a small part of the head sticks out for me. Maybe half a millimetre.
Once it has stretched and become more easily moved over the head....you aren't going to have much choice. The motion of sexual intercourse is going to move it freely and you won't be able to stop it. Just part of being uncircumcised. I'm wondering a bit if you're fearful of pain or some sort of tear or rip? If so, don't worry about that unless you're really agressive and then you'd probably only need to worry about the frenulum.
what if i don't stretch or try to retract it? If I have sex, and the friction happens, will I be in danger of tears then? Because the uncircumsized skin has veins popping out from time to time, and really looks like trouble if I try to mess with it.