Help needed

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Ok, well my new girlfriend was upset for some reason friday. After asking her about it for a while, she said it was because people couldn't tell really that we were dating. She wants people to be able to realize that we're a couple without hearing about it from someone else. So how can I do this?

well be more pda (public display of affection) kiss her hold hands whatever in public almost as much as you would in private,basically kiss her like the beginnings of making out whenever you get the chance just act like a couple,but id have to wonder why she cared so much about it being "known"

Lol, here's the other thing :P. First girlfriend never kissed her yet. basically not to much pda at all yet. Just a little when we're hanging out in a friends basement and stuff so yeah, basically no idea where to start...

well shit man havent given me much to work with,well work with what you have done but emphasize it, and talk to her and make her help its a relationship isnt it that she should help to,aside from the fact that most indicators of a relationship other than notes and such which is a little subtle lay in her hands (meaning pretty much all the decisions about sex are up to her)

Then kiss her already.

lol well it depends on how old they are

We're both 15

ok then get kissin sheesh but talk to her about it first start with something about kissing ,like if youve never been kissed or something of the like and tell her it snot just your responsibility if she wants it

lol, sounds pretty good. I dunno I'm a pretty nervous guy, even though it doesn't really seem like it to most people. But i dunno... i guess i just don't wanna screw up

yup i know how you feel,but communication is an integral part in all good relationships and is the best idea when it comes to sex (discussing birth control and such)and it promotes more trust,intimacy,honesty, general joy joy feelings,so if you discuss it with her depending on who she is might give her a better idea of you,because if you just go in for it and shes not ready you might feel rejected and say something stupid or she might think sex is all you want especially if you just dive for it, i would think the Hitch idea might be good for establishing that you dont just want sex (the you go 90 she goes 10) or something like that but i havent put it in use

lol. Hitch, what a show. Yeah I basically got no idea what im doing but whatever, ill just see what happens if the momments right i guess eh. Also do more of the stuff she seems to want, putting my arm around her etc

ya it was,and the arm around thing can get uncomfortable if your walking around and hand holding is much more enjoyable

k thanks :smile:. So do I just like slip it in or something? (told you I was new at this)

ok im assuming you mean hand,and yeah pretty much

Ok, thanks for the help.

yup