Exactly, you just found yourself in the unfortunate situation of people finding out quite soon.
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Parental Issues
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Yea happens to the best of us I jus thave to get the guts to go tell them that should be fun. Wish me luck!
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Good luck! And if things don't go too well, R.I.P.
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OH thanks for the words of incouragment.
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Anytime!Be sure to let us know how things turn out.. if you can.
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I know this isn't what you wanna hear.. but you had sex.. this is one of the consequences. It's part of growing up
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i wouldnt see it as a consequence more of a trial how you come through this will help shape you and your being in a big way
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if your looking for the right time to talk to them try pulling the most sensitive/understanding parent aside (like in your bedroom or theres or somewher you can be in private) and just explain how it happened..DONT just flat out say I HAD SEX! just be like the other night i was hanging out with ______ and we really like eachother so we decided that we would take our feelings up the next notch. I was safe and mature about it and it wasnt just stupid teenage fling we did it in a loving way. then your mom/dad will know about it and then want to tell your mom/dad about it and then you will have 2 people on your side and not trying to fight them both off.....it ALWAYS works when i get into a bad situation..
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Hmm to be honest I remember my sister having done this.. the way in which she smoothed it over was by saying "..mom, i know you're not going to like this but I feel like I should tell you, in case you hear it off someone else. It's better to hear it off me first. I slept with my boyfriend the other day, I know it was a stupid thing to do because we aren't old enough, but we used protection....and I'm not going to do it again..." Now whether or not she did do it again, I don't know but it put my parents minds at ease.. shrug
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Now that is a really good way to do it.
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UPDATEWell I guess things started rolling down hill. I havnt told my parents yet but my g/fs mom is freaking out. She wants to send my g/f to live with her dad over the summer, and she wont let me and her see each other until my g/f is on birthcontrol. Her mom also wants me and her to break up, which my g/f did do that today but took it back because she found out how horrible it is with out me. There was a lot of crying today that my g/f did. Were back together and I for some reason feel closer to her. Its been a very hard day but I feel something good is about to come around. I also got some very good ways to talk to my parents about it. Thanks for everyones help. I'll update again about what happens with my parents and her parents.