Parental Issues

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Exactly, you just found yourself in the unfortunate situation of people finding out quite soon.

Yea happens to the best of us I jus thave to get the guts to go tell them that should be fun. Wish me luck!

Good luck! And if things don't go too well, R.I.P.

OH thanks for the words of incouragment.

Anytime!Be sure to let us know how things turn out.. if you can.

I know this isn't what you wanna hear.. but you had sex.. this is one of the consequences. It's part of growing up

i wouldnt see it as a consequence more of a trial how you come through this will help shape you and your being in a big way

if your looking for the right time to talk to them try pulling the most sensitive/understanding parent aside (like in your bedroom or theres or somewher you can be in private) and just explain how it happened..DONT just flat out say I HAD SEX! just be like the other night i was hanging out with ______ and we really like eachother so we decided that we would take our feelings up the next notch. I was safe and mature about it and it wasnt just stupid teenage fling we did it in a loving way. then your mom/dad will know about it and then want to tell your mom/dad about it and then you will have 2 people on your side and not trying to fight them both off.....it ALWAYS works when i get into a bad situation..

Hmm to be honest I remember my sister having done this.. the way in which she smoothed it over was by saying "..mom, i know you're not going to like this but I feel like I should tell you, in case you hear it off someone else. It's better to hear it off me first. I slept with my boyfriend the other day, I know it was a stupid thing to do because we aren't old enough, but we used protection....and I'm not going to do it again..." Now whether or not she did do it again, I don't know but it put my parents minds at ease.. shrug

Now that is a really good way to do it.

UPDATEWell I guess things started rolling down hill. I havnt told my parents yet but my g/fs mom is freaking out. She wants to send my g/f to live with her dad over the summer, and she wont let me and her see each other until my g/f is on birthcontrol. Her mom also wants me and her to break up, which my g/f did do that today but took it back because she found out how horrible it is with out me. There was a lot of crying today that my g/f did. Were back together and I for some reason feel closer to her. Its been a very hard day but I feel something good is about to come around. I also got some very good ways to talk to my parents about it. Thanks for everyones help. I'll update again about what happens with my parents and her parents.