ok me and my gf have been dateing off and on for like the last 3 yrs. we hooked back up 4 months a go. like a week r two ago she brought up sex to me and everything. yeah im down for it but the last time it happen i had my heart broken. what is a good way to tell her i am not ready just yet? i like her a lot but i am not ready. then two days a go the girl that took my virginty called me back up wanting to go ut with me again. now i am cought between my first love(on who took my virginty) and my second love( my gf). WHAT SHOULD I DO???
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Help me out here
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First off you have to decide what girl you want, if either of them.Second off, if your not ready tell that girl the same way you just told us, your not ready and want to wait a while.
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the first step is knowing who you want to be with... which one do you like more? if its your gf then all you have to say is "im not ready just yet". if its your ex... there must have been a reason for your broken heart and she probably isnt the healthiest choice
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OH NO! 2 girls wanna have sex with u? ur life is so hard.hahaha
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ummm that was a lil harsh,but raen, figure out which one you like (or love) most and which you could see spending the rest of your life with or rest of highschool or well just the longest and most fulfilling and no one here can tell you which even if we knew every last detail right down to that mole on her tush that decision can only be made and examined by you so choose carefully
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Like they said definetly think about whcih one you truly love, or like better anyway. As for the whole sex thing, here is my opinion tell who ever you choose what you just told us. If she excepts it, you will know that she will not break your heart and don't have to wait forever until you do it again. If she blows you off, then she is a bitch, and you can go with your second choice(other girl)
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yes...that may have been a bit harsh of me. but i was in a bitchy mood. its funny how when ur younger little things seem like such a big deal....have a think about it , ull know which 1 u like better, i can just b hard 2 listen 2 ur true feelings bout things. tell ur brain 2 shut up, dont over think it and just go with what u feel.