This is my first post and i wanted to be able to go somewhere to talk about things without being embarrased... so anyways. ive been going out with this girl for a long time and we really like eachother, but how do i know when shes gonna be ready for my hand in her pants?
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How do i know when shes ready?
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Hey welcome to our world!While i'd just say wait till you both feel the time is right.it may just come naturally.or maybe not,i don't know,i'm only 12
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Well if she takes your hand and puts it there, she's ready.But she may want you to take the initiative. The usual thing is a progression from breasts to vagina, from hands outside clothes to hands inside. You take it a step at a time and judge her reactions.
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Wait intell you both are ready talk about it before like on the phone or something and bring the subject up and see what she thinks about the hole idea.....but make sure she is totally confortable. :wink:
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well talking about it is a good idea,but if your already at breast play (which if your not you shouldnt be worrying about pants)then slowly enough for her to notice but not think your just gunna dart down there and grab move it southward then look at her and see how she reacts (before you get your hand down there)if she looks particularly nervous or scared ,talk to her but if she DEFINATELY notices and you know shes looking right there then slowly proceed,thats more of a silent agreement as talking can be a lot more awkward unless youve done it before, but do not i repeat DO NOT just go for it make sure she wants it,and dont just dart down there if she does lightly caress the area leading to it,so its more exciting for her and doesnt put the idea that all you want is a nice warm wet pocket