its not wierd..well maybe it is..but its the same for me too!lol =[
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IS THIS WIERD?!
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I think its normal. I wouldnt worry about it, whats the point of puting a bunch of fingers in or whatever.
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haha yeah thats true
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Don't worry about it, honey - you are still a virgin - one finger is fine. Many virgins don't put anything bigger than a tampon up there, its so tight. Someday, you or your boyfriend can gradually begin to loosen you up when you know you will be having sex. No need to rush it.
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You have to remember that the vaginal wall is all muscle and muscle and stretch, bend, tear, etc. So yes its normal and yes eventually you will "stretch out" and be able to handle more.
(I'm sorry if that came out creepy or anything...I'm a biology and anatomy major so I know a lot of weird crap)
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I think you're perfectly normal. My gf had quite the same problem with you. She was so worried that she asked her own doctor about it and he just calmed her down. But, we both tried for a long period to have sex and she is much more relaxed now. So, you shouldn't worry, because you are only at the beginning.
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yeah, i just wanted to clear this up a bit. i'm like not complaining about not being able to fit more, it just kinda scares me that when i do have sex, that it will hurt like even more then the first time should =/
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I believe (from what I have heard) that sex hurts every female the first few times, but as said, pain will turn to pleasure when your muscles adjust. So I believe it is normal.
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Could be at least part of the hymen is still intact, too.
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It takes time to stretch it out...so dont rush...just give it time! i*m me at erka derka 91