alright so the deal is me and my boyfriend have been going out for 13 months and we had sex for the first time exactly one week ago. I usually get my period about 2 days ago. We used a condom and he said it didnt rip or leak. Ever since, I have been peeing a lot and getting hot flashes. Im also really stressed/nervous and my bf is not helping the situation at all. He just freaks me out more. Should I be worried or is this just first time jitters? Also, how long should I wait to do something if my period never comes? Thanks
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Should i be scared? please help
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it oftens happens that your period is late when your under stress or nervous all the time, at the time being see how it goes and if your period comes (depending if you have regular periods). i think stress is probably the main thing thats holding it back, there could be the possibility that you are pregnant but if the condom didnt break i would say the chances are low.maybe you should consider going on the pill or something, and using birth control and condoms togther, that would make things safer.
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yeah i think so but i dont know how to go on the pill without letting my parents know because there isnt a clinic nearby. I also wanted to mention that he did pull out as well.
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If he had a condom and it didn't break and he pulled out the chances of you being pregnant are pretty much zip. Your period isn't really that late, and many other things can cause late periods other than pregnancy. Plus, you wouldn't see or experience signs of pregnancy after one week.
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okay thanks...that helps calm my nerves a looot lol
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first time i had sex with my girlfriend, we freaked out too with worrying. her period was like 2 and ah alf weeks lte, just because of the stress. when she finally had it, we both cried.