Had a thread not long ago about this with a discussion mostly between males without many "yes or nos" from ladies. So If I could just know from the ladies whether or not you'd date a guy who is younger than you, up to say 3 years younger, with reasoning if you will.
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Ladies - would you go out with younger guys?
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Yes I would date a guy younger than me. I have done it before. He was 5 years younger and one of the best relationships I was ever in.
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How old were you at the time?
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I was 21 years old and he was 16 years old. I know it sounds weird, but he was a great guy and we had fun while it lasted.
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That should've been illegal then.
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16 is the age of concent in my state.
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Yea well your states a wacko state. There should be an international law on this.
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In reply to: I was 21 years old and he was 16 years old. I know it sounds weird, but he was a great guy and we had fun while it lasted. Brilliant. The oldest of the girls I've considered are 21, and I myself am 17.
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kindly save it buddy. Let me hear a little more from the ladies first else this thread will just be like the last I made of this subject.
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I'm sorry its just that its disgusting especially under 18 ugh would it make it fine if it was a 15 years old and like a 20 yearold. no. Anyway continue on...
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Well im 34 and my manthing is 31, i was 25 and he was 22 when we met.........i didn't really think anything of the age difference at all to be honest.....
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My mum just told me I would be better off with a girl around the age of 20 so I guess have the moral all clear :smile:
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I probably wouldnt date a younger guy. I think a 21 year old woman with a 16 yr old boy is kinda wrong. If the shoe were on the other foot I'd question the guys motives. Tricky little double standard.
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Well my motive is the desire to go otu with someone I am capable of relating to.
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I wouldnt question your motive, I would question hers.
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Why? We're talking about 3 years difference here and I'm not as vulnerable as you might think I fit in entirely with my older friends whuile among younger people I just dont know what to say alot of the time.
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Not just your specific situation, but I would question the motives of any adult who is in a relationship with a teenager. It just raises all kinds of red flags in my mind.And 3 years is a long time. Im 22 and can say that I was a completely different person at 19. And I will be different at 25. Just be careful, thats all Im saying.
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well, 3 yrs younger than me would b me dateing a 14 year old...so thats a big NO!but u sound like a pretty mature guy 4 ur age, and if ur old enough 2 hang out with ppl that age, then ur old enough 2 date them cuz they oviously dont seem 2 think of u as a little kid or anything.
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Hey you could date me thats 2 years younger lol
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In reply to: I fit in entirely with my older friends whuile among younger people I just dont know what to say alot of the time. I'm somewhat the same way. It's hard to have an intelligent conversation with girls my age... and especially girls younger than me. So, I date women older than me.