Well, I have been with my boyfriend over 14 months and we decided to have sex like 8 days ago and my period is 5 days late.. We used a condom and pulled out and he says it didnt rip or leak to his knowledge. The real problem is hes freaking out. He thinks I am pregnant, and now whenever I talk to him on the phone I end up crying from all the stress. Im tired of trying to be the stronger person and having to say that it will all work out. I need someone to fall back on and Ive told him this and he just tells me he is trying really hard. He is making himself sick over the stress. We are getting a test this weekend so hopefully we will end this. Do you think he has reason to stress out? Is there anyway I can help him become more supportive (im not sure if im using the correct word)? Im sorry if this is under the wrong subject. Thanks
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I need him to be the stronger person
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First,yes he has very good reason to be stressed if he may become a father.tell him that you have stressful times too and your always there for him,and you need him to be there for you as well.also,tell him to join this site if he can't find anything to say to strong for you when you need him.
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If he used a condom _and_ he pulled out before orgasm chances of pregnancy are zero. It sounds like he's a big worrier. If he is, that's not likely to change.
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This happens to me alot.. when you're late you stress out.. and the stress can prevent it from coming sooner. Im sure you'll be fine hun!
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alright thanks.. do you know how long stress can affect it for?
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It can depend.. One time my period was late four weeks!! eeek.. I went on birth control after that to regulate my periods.. you might wanna try that.