My brother verbally abuses my mom.

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So everynight/day my brother gets on my mother's case. Well, being a mother my mom asks the normal motherly questions "is your homework done?" stuff like that. Everyone gets annoyed but my brother is out of control.
So tonight, she just asks how he's doing and he start screaming at her that "he told her she's not allowed in his life" He says he's moving out the second he turns 18 (couple weeks). And my dad would usually scold him if he knew he had put my mother into tears for the millionth time this week.
I am sick of my brother yelling at my mom, swearing at her, then just leaving her to cry. She'll come into my room and just cry her pour heart out. She says "her sweet little boy has turned into an abusive son and hopes that i'm not like that 3-4 years from now when i'm his age."
I know I wont be like that, because i have seen what she has been through, she has talked about him to me and he treats her like shit. complete SHIT, this is out of control. Sure every parents and kid fights but this is a daily thing, if he doesn't like her SO WHAT he doesn't need to rub in her face.

confront your brother, tell him what a jerk he is being and that its hurting your mom, and let your mom know how much you care about her. she might need it after your brtoher flips out.

why is it always brothers?

uh oh...confront him...

every-time it happens i just wanna yell "wow just leave her alone already. she's telling you to leave her alone, just LEAVE HER ALONE" but sometimes i think my mom doesn't like to admit when she needs help with these things. But she might say "stay out of it" when inside she really needs it. But my dad, if he were home... he'd do something, not that it works...

you need to say something, it could develope into something worse later. really, dont let it get any more out of control.

I'm having difficulty reconciling the picture of your mother you present in this thread with the picture you present in the Abuse? thread. If they are the same person, each picture should give clues to the other.

hmmm..this sounds familliamy sista did the same thing. she was such a stupid bitch 2 my mum for afue years but shes not as bad now. i just had 2 sit back and watch cuz if it tryed 2 do anything about id b the 1 getting yelled at. "this dosnt involve YOU" news flash. when u yell, it involves or effects every1 body who can hear u. mostly i just tryed 2 defuse the situation b4 it happened, kinda by turning what my sister wasbeing pissed off about into a joke..i donno how 2 explane it, but u get pretty good at if after afue years.anyway, it will pass or hell move out. just gotta bear with it 4 awhile i guess

That's the same thing I was thinking. First the mother is accused of being abusive by calling her a slut and fat etc... now she is this poor soul being abused by her son. I don't get it.

In reply to:hmmm..this sounds familliamy sista did the same thing. she was such a stupid bitch 2 my mum for afue years but shes not as bad now. i just had 2 sit back and watch cuz if it tryed 2 do anything about id b the 1 getting yelled at. "this dosnt involve YOU" news flash. when u yell, it involves or effects every1 body who can hear u. mostly i just tryed 2 defuse the situation b4 it happened, kinda by turning what my sister wasbeing pissed off about into a joke..i donno how 2 explane it, but u get pretty good at if after afue years. Is it a younger sister you have? Sounds familiar to the situation of a friend of mine whose younger sister has gone really rude and stupid, while my friend is alwyas getting really annoyed at her behavior, she ended up as the mature sister.

I honestly think you should sit back and let your parents deal with it. If he's abusive to your mother he will be abusive to you. My brother is the exact same way.. I only confront him when my dad is around or else he'd put me six feet under.. brothers arent scared to hurt their sisters.. just be careful.. If it gets worse I would have a serious conversation with your dad about it.Hopefully he does move out the second he turns 18 and if he doesnt and keeps complaining about it.. keep bringing it up. "I thought you were gonna move out?"

I'm afraid to hurt my sister.She has very sharp nails...

You should be. I wish siblings would start getting along.

yeah i would never hurt my sister and its not because im afraid of her i just wouldnt

OK its also because she moved away too.(you just had to make me feel guilty.i had being so easy to make guilty!)

slap the fuck out of him

wow are you serious? that sucks. my mom would slap the crap out of us whoever did that. my sister is 23 and she got slapped for talking back. momma don't play! lol anyway I think you should have a talk with your brother. he is ungrateful and disrespectful and his mom needs to get some back bone. SHAPE UP WOMAN! It stinks to hear things like that. Especially when I know that my life would be living hell if I acted like that. Can't get away with anything.

I remember once my mom was "kicking my brother out" but he always comes back.. and he was like.. 17 maybe.. and they were screaming at eachother at the front door.. and my brother went to hit my mom.. i was like !! but she blocked him and knocked him out.. ahahah!

Do NOT confront your bro as he will only go off on you. Try to help him sort out his problems and try to cool him down.