but my gf isnt really into sex that much. she can take it or leave it, an sez she has incredibly low sex drive. even tho she enjoys it when we do it.
now shes got a vibrator? i asked is it coz i aint up to it, even tho im sure i am, she said thats ridiculous. but am i bein ridiculous?
g/f thats never up 4 it buys a vibrator!
help!
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G/f bought vibrator at friends ann summer party
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It would bug me too.
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Using a vibrator is somewhat different than sex. You are by yourself and if you get horny you can pleasure yourself faster and it is enjoyable. No clean up and don't have to mess with anyone else.Maybe she is looking to up her sex drive or is just curious. It may benefit you, just give it time.
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Every woman should have a vibrator. Obvoisly your not stimulating her clitorous enough, thats where you need your tounge and or vibrator on her. Ask if you can watch her use it and see what she does. Then help her use it.
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Ask her if you can use it on her during sex I bet she would love that.
I got one for when my hubby is on nights or if I need a quicky so to speak. My hubby was a bit hesitant when I bought it but when he realised that he could be involved in using it on me he loves it. He did ask if I prefered it to him which of course I don't ....but.....my hubby's tongue certainly doesn't move as fast as my rabbit :wink: -
Guys with girlfriends are still allowed to masturbate - isn't this the same sort of thing?