There ia a girl I like. We are ok friends (I Gess (Not Sure). Well, At the end of last year my School had a dance. During that dance I had a Friend (well kina a friend) ask her out (I gess can't rember what he said exactly, and i am VERRY Shy i had me head down the whole time). She told me she was interested in some one else. Do you think she was lying so i did not feal bad. She is real nice.
A Typical Problem
The one thing that you must learn when dealing with women, is that being shy and super nice will never get you anywhere. In order to get her interested you need to be confident, but not cocky. Show her that you believe in yourself, don't be shy, take control of the situation! I used to be like you, I was very shy around girls I liked, and I often had my friends ask them out for me, but IT NEVER WORKES! But after a while, I became more confident in myself, and I radiated that confidence around me, well lets just say I wasn't single for long :grin: .
Just don't think anything of it, convince yourself, that you have what it takes, and talk to her yourself.
Well i am so afarid of what people will say when i think they will say no I have troble asking my dad to stop for ice cream.
And i forgot to say also i was going to another school (but was still considered a studet of the school with the dance (I have a few problems) And if you look at the sociel Chain I am a geek She is a chearleader (Literly)
Geeks are allowed to date cheerleaders, and vice-versa, Heto. Geeks are not inferior to cheerleaders.It doesn't look good to get a friend to ask a girl for a date on your behalf - that's something you must do personally.