Ok well. i've only had 1 girlfriend so far i stopped after one cause all of the pain, risk etc. I had a girlfriend in grade 6 who i adored with all my heart, we've had fun and such, I never did get to kiss her though that may have been a problem which we broke up for. Anyway after we broke we still stayed realyl good friends but in grade 8 we did get in a huge fight then we both went to different high school and now i moved to a diffrent city. We have not stayed in touch for like 1 year but now I talked to her again not long ago. Since im going back to my old city to visit some of my old friend next week end, i dont know if i should visit her, i think she said she wanted us to hang out. My question is if i go back would it bring back horrible memories and feelings? would i fall in love with her? or just ruin our friendship? Please help!, thanks guys.
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Relationship Dilema!
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Thank You Bigger Brother Of Rock and Roll!I think i started to love her again. Actually love! people said we will end up marrying or dating for a long long time! never happend. But after we broke up i had diffrent view on girls now and dont feel like dating i like 2 beautiful girls at my school but she further away and i still want her! I dont her for sex or such, i want her as a life partner, a soulmate, a best friend!
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So, what should I do? Visit her or just you know..chat.
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Visit her, what have you got to lose? Even if things dont't work out, you can't say you didn't try.
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What do i have to lose!? well, i could lose my friendship with her and that would be past oblivion! it was not enough after i got into highschool i havent heard or seen her for 2 and a halgf years...and counting
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But a relationship that wouldn't survive a visit would be no relationship at all.
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I understand. what do you think i should do Ineligible.
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I think you should visit her. Who knows what might happen - you may get closer, or you may find you have drifted apart - but if you don't do it you'll always wonder.
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I'm afraid that we are soo much out of each other that we cant speak to eachother, this has been bothering me for soo long too 3 days seems ages!
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I rekcon it will be alright when you see her, just dont try and force what may not be there.Good luck buddy!
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It is very awkward after we broke up, i never acted the same around her. She will be back from Chicaco soon so il try to talk to her online; but what do i say!?
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She came on and i have absolutl no clue what to do...i feel so screwed right now.