i just remembered...for two days in school roughly 2 months ago i started this mental masterbation thing. i would imagine making love to a selct few girls in my classes close my ees and make myself actually feel the sensation...kind of like what i do to decide when to eat, i imagine eating the food and the flavor so on so on, so im doingthis in class takes it about an hour to get to the point where i know if i touch a little longer then ill cum when im normally masterbating...but cant when i just thin about it, is it impossible to do or can you orgasm this way. i wanna say i read something about it on here but cant find it for the life of me:)
I think you might be refering to something called Tantric Sex? It's basically using your mental sensations to reach sexual pleasure.Might be something for you to look into.
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It took a long time, but I found it, buried in this thread - note posts by Roo and ShadowKitten.