Getting ate out...

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I was so nervous, bc i've never been ate out before...i mean i love my body but i've alway's been embarrassed to let guys do stuff to me..I'm still a virgin, and recently my bf fingered me and it kinda hurt, he could only fit one finger in...anyway back to the subject of getting ate out.. I let him do it but i was just way too nervous but it felt soooo good I got off like 3 times..But now when i talk to my bf i just wonder if thinks any different of me..Im just paranoid that he thinks im weird or something, do guys enjoy doing this for you or is it like a job?? He acted like he was having fun while he was doing it...Do guy's judge u when you let them do this (like the way it looks, feels, everything) i think im just being paranoid. help me out a little

well i would enjoy it, but as to how he was feeling youd have to ask him otherwise no one here will know,and i would assume some guys see it as a job or a means to a happy end and hopefully more to come but yeah

well, after he did it i told him that i was embarrassed...and he said that i have nothing to be embarrassed about...but i still just feel kinda scared to just get naked, is that normal?

ooo well unless he was snickering and telling you not to pay attention to the flash from his camera than i would have to assume he was fine with it,and yes that would be normal especially if thats the first time hes seen you naked,and if you do want to do it more than i would say that would get you out of your fear of being naked in front of him or if you had the private time for it make him get naked too so youll have less to be embarassed about

thanx for the help...it was the first time for me to be completely naked, but as far as he goes he gets naked all the time. i mean yea it makes me more comfortable when he does it, but he's more experienced than me...hes the first guy i've ever let do stuff to me, so i guess being nervous is normal

no prob bob,so yea it should fade with time otherwise just talk to him about it

i have this same problem.I'm paranoid about how the guy willreact on how i look or something.i dont mind being fingered or anything.and i'm not a virgin. any tips?

on him eating you out? well clean up beforehand make sure its more inviting,as to looks ask him i cant tell you what he likes

Well, my boyfriend currently is really like..slow i guess you could say. And i'm used to going a bit faster. I'm not saying i want to rush it, but i want to do more then just plain old making out.

well then discuss it with him

I guess if a guy truly loves you he'll accept how you are.... he tells me all the time im beautiful and i have a perfect body but im just insecure with what he thinks about it..i guess im just not use to showing it off to anyone

its anything but a job to guys, i personally love eating my girlfriend out and making her orgasm, its a real turn on. and no, he's not going to judge you about anything, if he's willing to eat you out then he's not going to be afraid of vaginas, and think that some are ugly or whatever. a vagina is a vagina, a guy really isnt going to care how it looks. i guess the only real tip i have if you want to look better for him is trim/shave the pubes if theyre long, but thats about all you can do.

thanks for the advice...i always keep mine clean and neat, he must like doing it bc last night he did it again....but he likes doing 69, do all guys like doing that or somethin? i'm assuming they do lol

My boyfriend has tried to go down on me twice... I couldn't get off either time. He can bring me to orgasm with his hands, but he can't find my clit with his mouth (you think it'd be easier because he could see it! haha!). I mean, I liked the way it felt, but it wasn't enough to do much other than a ridiculous tease.I figured he wouldn't be able to the first time, we're both still virgins and the farthest we've gone is with eachother, and I am still really self-concious. He likes to watch when I go down on him, but I couldn't look at him I was so self-concious. By the second time, I was still sorta self-concious, but not as much, but he can't find my clit and after I kept trying to direct him ("no, to the left. no. my left... no. the other left...") it got to be more of a chore than something enjoyable.What can I do to help him out so both of us (eh, mostly me..) enjoy it more?

I just did for the first time the other day.and i realized its not as bad as i thought it would be. i was comforable. andit felt AMAZING