this sucks. my friend told me last night my gf talked to him and told him she was thinking of leaving me for her ex, after our prom. i wasnt sure if i should believe him at first, but then at lunch today i mentioned prom and all of a sudden she got all quiet and turned her head away. so im really afraid shes going to do it. i talked to her on the phone later that day, and asked her if she still loved her ex and she said no. i want to believe her, but im not sure i should. i just dont know what to think, i dont know how to react...i dont know anything anymore. i feel hurt, angry, confused, sad, all at once. i mean, part of me wants to work this out, and try to get her to stay with me, and part of me wants to wait for her to break up with me, then give her a piece of my mind...i just dont know what to do. i guess the thing that hurts most is knowing how hard i tried to keep us together through all the hell that has been this relationship, and now its come to this...sigh...life sucks. shes told me she loved me...many times, but nowi feel like a temporary replacement for her ex, until he decided he wanted her back. im just really confused right now, please help me.
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Tell her what you've heard. Just try to get her to be honest. If she admits to it, break up with her. If she doesn't, well it depends on how she denies it.
"Believe those who are seeking the truth; doubt those who find it"
im just afraid bringin up the subject will make her totally freak out, cuz of the whole trust issue, that crap.
What I would do....well how my mind worked at the time. You are way to young to be wasting your time with her if she is being all shady. You only have one prom, so why avoid the inevitable bad night? Make it a fun and positive memory instead of a bad one. Hell go stag! There will be plenty of ladies to dance with, and you can try and cock block the guys with dates. I know at my homecoming my date was crowned queen and let me tell you her head needed to be greased just to get through a door. That was enough drama for me, so when prom came around me and some friends ditched going and invited some girls from another school to a party at my cabin. Much more fun than the retarded prom. Whatever you decide to do, just have fun and be careful and make a good memory out of it.
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well, you have a good point, but the only problem with that is that she is a junior, and im a senior, and i know she will not go as friends if i break up with her, and i know i will be taking alot of shit from all of my friends if i do do that(1 ticket is 50 bucks btw) so yea. youre totally right, i will be regretting it the rest of my life if she does do that, but what other option doi have?