my boyfriend broke up with me and he told me it was because he had decided to be straight. He told me then it was easier to be straight, but its been about a month now, and I know some more. He told me he wants to have a family someday, and wants to have sex with a woman just to produce offspring. He also said that he is going to hell for being gay, and homosexuality is "a disease" caused by one letting Satan creep into them. He now is praying to find God to cure him of his illness. He is convinced that letting God into his heart and soul will make him straight. This is because his family is very religious and they told him they want him to be straight so they arent ashamed or embarassed of him. I personaly do not buy it for one second, but he is passing himself off as straight. What do you all think about this? Can you really become straight, just by WANTING to? (he claimed at first it was conviction, but not its his CHOICE to be straight) I dont think so, but Im curious as to what everyone thinks.
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Can you change orientations?
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Man don't ya just love religious folk? :confused:
People like them are one of the many reasons why I don't attend church or believe in most organised religiouns. I love their infamous copout "This was Satans doing!" I don't know if there really is a Mr. Satan/Lucifer/Beelzebub/Belial, whatever. But being that he is all evil and supposed to be Mr. badass/tempter of lust, that he would make fun of homosexual people? Wouldn't he want strait people in his legion of evil folk, so they can swap stories of pickin up girls at the "sinful" local wateringholes? LOL just a funny thought.
On a serious note, that kind of story really drives me crazy. Some christian's can be such royal hipocrites and it seriously makes me so mad, all I can do is laugh it off. I assume all those catholic priests let satan into their bodies when they molested all of them innocent boys? I mean that is like a fireman deciding not to put out fires anymore. Their job is to bring us closer to God and oppose satan. I guess somewhere they decided all the hell with it Lucifer, you can fuck with me a little bit I guess. Even though I know more about the evils of the Christian faith than the common man and spent all my life studying the word of God. I am goin off on a tangent again, because it never makes sense to me. Lets blame it all on this so called evil, that no one has ever scene. People are such simple minded puppets to follow people so blindly without even an inkling of proof.
These parents are ashamed of their own flesh and blood, because the church says so? My god it pisses me off so much. Now this poor guy is gonna spend all of his time worrying about this to no end and I assure you no with no happy ending. Your youthful years should be fun and a learning experience to prepare you for the future. I hope his parents are happy knowing that they are flushing their sons chances of a happy future right down the shitter. I could rant all day about this and it is giving me a headache..DAMN it! It is probably Satans doing or something
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Honestly to me it sounds like your ex has a lot of personal and religious issues to resolve. His family certainly is not helping the matters. It might come down that your ex is gay, but I have a feeling later in life he’s going to regret not being true to himself. So many times guy (and women) are not true to themselves when it comes to their sexuality and end up getting married and having children and feeling trapped. This can lead to cheating on their spouse with other men later in life. Unfortunately that is very common now days.Though this might be a hurtful situation for you, it’s something you have no control over and something he’s going to have to decide on his own. I hope he understands he can still be a Christian and have his faith and still be true to himself. I myself am a Christian and have my faith but I also know I am not going to hell for simply loving someone.There is a lot of I could say about this topic. It’s truly upsetting to see a family not supporting the child. Just as bad as seeing other Christians talk about condemning someone for love. I hope for the best for your ex and he makes the best decision for himself, not for other people.
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You cannot change who you are. He is homosexual and he will always be homosexual, he may supress urges and desires but he is who he is, and I HATE people that go one about how its a flipping disease. Science is getting closerto proving the 'gay' gene.
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Science is getting closerto proving the 'gay' gene. I SOO cannot wait until that day. But sometimes I wonder if that'll change anything when it really comes to Religion. Religions never like to admit they are wrong even when it's proven.
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some people will listen, and thats what its all about. If science can make one teenager or adult feel better about being who they are, then its done its job.
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>If science can make one teenager or adult feel better about being who they are, then its done its job.
Very very true. Again I look forward to the day when since proves the gay gene.
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I knew a guy once that came out when he was like 40 or 45. He said he couldn't live the lie any longer. He had two teenage kids, a wife and a dog. The dog is the only one who would have anything to do with him after his revelation. His wife who had been a fairly open-minded women, suddenly became a devout holly roller and and made sure that the kids believed that if they ever spoke to him again they would burn it hell just as he was going to do, or so he says. Last I heard, which has been a couple of years, he's in a fulfilling relationship but missing his kids he's in constant misery. Moral of the story; first, fuck what family, society and least of all religion, think of you and be yourself. Second, if your going to try and be someone your not don't get other people involved. When the day comes that you can no longer keep up the pretense you will have ruined a lot of innocent lives and the only one who'll still claim you is the dog.When you lie to yourself only bad shit will come of it.
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I'm quite sure you can...
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Ugh!!!! You and your baseless posts. How do you know you can? We always ask for some evidence from you and you never do.
I really have no issues with you, truly I don't, but when you post things like this with no following data it leaves doubt.
Trust me as a GAY male, you CANNOT just change your sexual orientation at whim. If that was the case there would be no gay people because no one would choose a hard life of ridicule.
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yes you can change orientations.most people know i'm bi,but actually i seem to be turning gay.
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no one said you can change when ever you want.
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u can PRETEND 2 b who ur not, but this will only lead 2 unhappyness. seriously, u cant live happly as sum1 ur not, it just dosnt work that way.
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No you CANNOT change your orientation. Either you are gay, bi or straight. You cannot change your orientation just because "you feel like it" or whatever. Sexual orientation, which I believe and soon to be proven, is something a person is born with.
Now I am not saying there are not cases when someone thought they were gay and realized, as they got older, they were just experimenting and we're truly straight. It happens that way for straight people all the time. But saying you can CHANGE your sexual orientation is incorrect. -
Just let them think that people are born that way...
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Can you give evidence other wise?? Okay than. Maybe you need to rethink about posting something you know nothing about instead of posting ignorance.
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Yea pick up a science book for a change, the biological one
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I dunno what books you have read, which I doubt you have read any because you can NEEVR back up anything you say. Do some research on the web about genetics and homosexuality. Don't waste peoples time with your assumptions and false information.
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Therers no such thing as the "gay gene". What ididot made that up.
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OMG bud serious. Do a google on gay gene or homosexual genetics and stop wasting peoples time on your simple assumptions.Maybe you'll learn something today... if you take the initiative.