Im so mad right now. My parents let my Uncle stay at our house cause him and his gf broke up and had so he had no place to stay. This is my mom's brother anyways. He only paid us $300 bucks total during the whole time he stayed. Hes on the home phone non stop talking to girls for hours and hours. He take showers like 2-3 times a day. I babysit his son most of the time. One time he just left his son in the bath tub so he can get some stuff at the grocery store. I was taking a nap but my bf was at my house and found my lil cousin outside naked crying for his dad. This isnt the first time he left his son alone without telling us.
Then our bills are going up and my mom and dad were getting worried cause my Uncle isnt doing anything at all, hes been at our house for 6 months now. Not helping us pay for the bills and groceries. We'd think that he has money cause he is working and sold his car for over $3,000. So my mom wrote him a letter about him paying her $300 just to help w/ bills and some groceries, and if he cant then he had to move out in two months cause this couldnt go any longer.
She said nothing comes for free in life and hes lucky that we let him stay for half a year. No one helped my mom when she was struggling with me, plus she didnt even have a car so in her mind shes thinking that he can do much better than this and start being independent. I mean all he does is go clubbing.
So after two akward months he finally moved out. He told my moms side of the family (who she wasnt in good terms with) and by the way it was because of him. In the beginning my mom and dad promised him that they wouldnt tell the other family members about him and his gf breaking up and when the other family members found out they turned against my parents. So now since we had to have him move out he talked crap about my parents to his friends and our family members. Acting like we are the bad guys. And my mom is so hurt cause now he doesnt want to talk to her ever again. and now she cant see her lil nephew. Its like im so sad for my mom, why do they do this to her.
Her older sister and brother inlaw did the same thing. After my mom and dad took them to Thailand my dads bank card didnt work so he couldnt take out money at all so that meant they couldnt fly out of thailand. My moms sister had 4 $100 bills in her wallet but didnt want to give to my parents. So I had to spend my $200 bucks to Thailand so they can fly out the next day. They just use my dad cause they think he is rich when he isnt really. He may make more than them but he has to support his family and pay mortgage and bills.
I dont know why they take us for granted like this. The littlest things they think we do wrong ruins it for them and they have to turn around at us like we were the bad guys. WHen really we helped them more than anyone else would have and done things for them to make them happy more than any one could have done.