My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half now and we've been having sex for a little over a year. I don't understand why but I can't get an orgasm when i'm with him. I masturbate and can give myself one every time so it's not like I don't know my body or anything.. I just don't know what to tell him to do. I've almost given up hope. Do you think it's that I think about getting one too much? What am I doing wrong? Sometimes i feel like it's getting close but that I'm just going to pee or something.. a feeling i never get when i'm masturbating.
No orgasm after a year?
I'm still a virgin but many of my friends aren't and I had one friend in the same boat as you. Maybe you could try stimulating yourself with fingers or a non-penis shaped vibrator during sex. Or you could have him bring you to orgasm before hand from manual/oral sex so even if you don't orgasm from sex you'll still have some satisfaction.
The peeing sensation is usually associated with a G-spot orgasm. I've had that too when my boyfriend was fingering me. My best tip would be to pee before you have sex so when you feel a sensation like you need to pee you'll know it's just a G-spot orgasm building.