When my little cousin would stay over at my house so I can babysit him my bf yells at him, not like screaming yell but in a strong lenient voice if that makes sense. But he yells at him when my cousin miss behaves. My lil cousin would cry for soda all the time, eat chips all the time, and other junk candy foods. And that gets my bf annoyed. One time my bf asked my cousin to sit still and be quiet cause we were watching a movie, my lil cousin didnt want to and hes been getting on my bf's nerves the whole day so he said out loud in front of my cousins dad "god damn it hes an annoying brat, he gets away with so many things and no body does nothing about it, hes going to get diabetes for eating so unhealthy at his age." and that made me go like Ohh Noo whats my Uncle gonna say back but he ended up not saying anything. Then when my lil cousin gets mad he would say bad words and say things like "my moms gonna cut your throat" and hes like 3 years old hes 4 now but its pretty bad.
My bf doesnt have alot of patience with kids like that so sometimes I have to tell him to calm down, but there has been a few times where he would yell at my cousin saying how miss behaved he is in front of my Uncle. So when my Uncle finally moved out of the house my mom and him werent in good terms and he wrote about how he didnt like my bf talking to his son like that and if my bf and I had a problem watching him then he wont bring him back anymore.
I was kind of upset and sad cause I do love my lil cousin and there are times where you just want to hit him but hes my cousin you know. I do agree with my bf at times where my cousin miss behaves so much and his father doesnt do anything about it. He just hits him but thats all, he doesnt talk to his son about behaving better.
So I was wondering if you think it was wrong of my bf to say things to my cousin, like i told him that he isnt the father and to just have his dad deal with it, just ignore it or say things to me when no one is around you know? but my bf says cant cause it just totally gets him frustrated and pist cause he said he never seen a kid act like my cousin before. and that we shouldnt be so quiet about his behavior cause it really needs to change since he will be going to school soon and my bf thinks that hes going to have more problems at school.
Do you agree with him and think that he should be saying things like that? I dont know sometimes I think he says a lil too much that could offend someone you know.