I come here now with no other ideas on how to solve my current problem i have wit my best friend.Currently I know deep down my friend is a really good friend. He hangs out with me everyday and we do lots of fun things together. We have now been friends for about 4 years. Now to the problems i am having. Basically the way he told me the other day is "No matter how bad i make you feel and no matter how wrong i know i will find it a joke and find it stupid and I dont care how important it is i wont help you solve the problem we are having" Me personally i thought friends are there for each other to help each other out through rough times and work their problems out. My friend has stopped wanted to work things out and basically makes me feel horrible because just the little things add up cause i cannot work them out with him. Any idea i have is stupid untill he realizes that my idea was cool then uses my idea then doesnt give me credit over it. I dont know if its because he just wasnt want to get close because his other best friend died when he was 12 (now he is 16) and now he is afraid if i die or something that he will regret being so close. Sometimes i think that some of his family issues come into my life and he takes it out on me and makes me feel bad and will never admit that he was wrong. Last time i tried to tell him the problems i was having with him he didnt talk to me for a week and said that i made him really mad and he purposely deleted that whole conversation. If i force a conversation on him he will listen then just delete it and he will forget the whole thing happened. I really dont know what to do anymore its like he is my friend but isnt there for me I just dont know what to do anymore.... any suggestions?
i really dont think theres any way he can justify his actions...he just sounds like a total asshole to me. that thing about his best friend dying when he was 12...yeah he has a right to be upset but geez..i think you should go out and find some friends who wont treat you like dirt like he is doing.