Well, me and my friends have wondered this. I know it’s kind of stereo-typical, but they say guys are more horny then girls. And in a relationship, it would be the guy who wants to have sexual acts more then the girl. But what we where wondering is in a gay-male relationship, would they have sexual acts more then a male-female, or female-female relationship? Seeing most guys are always horny?I am new here, so I don’t know if it has been asked, and really didn’t know what to put in the search incase it has. So just wondering if that is true or not.
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Might be stereo-typical, but..
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Hi 19yearoldmale, welcome to A2A! I don't think that question has been asked before in my time, and it's a reasonable question. It _is_ a bit stereotyping to say that guys are more horny than girls - there are many girls who are quite horny, and some guys who are not. It's probably fair to say, though, that in a couple the guy is hornier than the girl more often than not. That's because testosterone makes both men and women horny, and guys have more of it.
A factor that has to be taken into account is that frequency of sexual acts is influenced a lot by social and external factors. If guys could get sex every time we wanted to, we wouldn't get much else done. In a relationship often the amount of sex is limited by what is convenient rather than horniness.
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Guys just talk about it more, especially younger ones. My friends/sisters and I are the horniest people ever.
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totally not true.My boyfriend doesn't do that much, and we're gunna move farther I have to make all the moves because he isn't that horny of a guy
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well you dont know that he could be really horny just worried about going to fast with you
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Well he COULD.but also, when ever my friends tell him to go farther is been forever and we've only made out. he says its "impossible" He doesn't know anything like what comes after making out. he knows you go up the girls shirt or down her pants. but he's only told my friend he'd go up the shirt.and my friend said "dont forget about the pants" and he'll be like "enough!!"so idk..and he didn't know how to spell "vagina"
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Hey there.Well as a gay male in a year relationship, I don't feel we have sex more than a straight relationship. We have sex 3-4 times a week, sometimes less and sometimes more. It's all situational I suppose.
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Fact: I tend to think about sex once every 7 seconds.I think we may be, since there's the whole 'spread your genes around' incentive.
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I have no desire to "spread my seed around". Though I understand the concept and learned about it many times through college courses I still think it's a bunch of crap.
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Claim: On average, men think about sex every seven seconds. Status: False. Origins: We've no idea how long this "everybody knows" misconception has been around, but we've certainly been hearing it ourselves since we were kids, and that was decades upon decades ago. Depending on which version you've encountered, the amount of time between naughty male thoughts will be stated differently, with "every three minutes," "every eight seconds," and "every fifteen seconds" giving "every seven seconds" a run for its money as the top finisher in this category. The number itself doesn't matter; it's the aura of authority with which the claim is invariably stated, as if this were an undisputed fact backed by scientific research. Though steamy-minded men might be a nice concept to be enthralled by (also to come home to, but I digress), the theory doesn't hold up. According to the Kinsey Institute's FAQ, "54% of men think about sex every day or several times a day, 43% a few times per month or a few times per week, and 4% less than once a month." Though no one can swear to how often a particular thought flashes through any one guy's head, it's pretty clear from the Kinsey statement that the majority of the gender is not being overcome with naughty imaginings every seven seconds, as slightly less than half of them don't think about sex even as much as once a day. Even if Kinsey's research is not accurate in this regard, those who assert the "seven seconds" claim was gleaned from the Kinsey Report are clearly mistaken. That connection is not hard to understand, because The Kinsey Report (more properly, Sexual Behavior in the Human Male, first published in 1948, and Sexual Behavior in the Human Female, first published in 1953) is considered the bible of sex research. A sex research statistic will therefore be assumed to have come from this source. Why is this baseless belief as prevalent as it is? Its popularity stems in part from what is widely believed about men: that their behaviors are more sexually motivated than those of women, with this heightened impetus being attributable to how males of our species are physically wired rather than to matters of conscious choice or societal conditioning. A statistic of this nature works to confirm that assumption by overlaying a patina of faux science onto the "Men think of nothing but sex, sex, sex!" caricature we've become deeply enamored of. Although almost exclusively a precept about male sexual motivation, at times women looking to position themselves as sexually uninhibited advance the "every so many seconds" allegation of themselves. In 2003, just prior to her marriage to Dave Navarro, Carmen Electra described herself in interviews as a "very sexual person" who "thinks about sex every 20 seconds." Interestingly, scant two years later this former Baywatch star backpedalled that assertion in an interview with Toronto's Globe and Mail: "Oh, that was a joke. I think people think I think about sex every 20 seconds. I'm sure Dave wishes I did. No, I don't think of it that much." for fuck sakes, If your gonna throw some facts around, be sure you check them firstf. as for my sources for this, you can look into Snopes, but since i copy and pasted the entire article here including the links, you can skip that if ya like.
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well than it sounds like he could be scared,turbo gentleman,or religious or scared of religious parents or such