I know theres alot of posts similar:But I started pulling my skin back over my head about 3yrs ago (now 18).It used to be tight, but now I can pull it right over...a) It doesnt naturally uncover the whole head when erect, only about 1/2 - the other 1/2 which is the thickest part of the head it gets a bit tight sometimes.How come in porn vids the guys penis looks to have his skin pulled like all the way completely down his penis? My frelenium begins to hurt if its more than uncovering the head- let alone right down the lenght of penis??
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How far can you pull back ur skin?
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You're fine and normal. As long as you can pull it back past the head, you're good to go. The guys in pornos that you see pull their skin all the way down the shaft just have more flexible frenulums. Pulling the skin that far down is 'optional' and not necessary. If you want to be able to do that, you just need to work at stretching your frenulum more. Just keep pulling your foreskin back as far as it will go, stopping when you get pain, and hold it there for at least 5 minutes everyday, several times per day. Eventually you will notice you can move your skin further down. It can take several weeks to months of stretching to accomplish it though.
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Thanks - I did read the main topic Lance did, but i wanted to hear what you said - that its normal and as far as it goes is as far as it need be.When you have sex, does the penis stay in the same spot, whilst your skin moves over and back the head as you move ur body in and out -Or does the whole penis move in and out the vagina.I picture the penis going in and hurting me as the skin goes in and pulls back past the head?is that understandable Will i feel any pain from the frelenium when i push into the vagina?
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Yes the penis goes in and out of the vagina. Some claim the forskin is supposed roll back and forth over the glans with the in and out motion. I think the forskin is supposed to remain behind the head all the times but I guess it varies from person to person. The guys you see in pornos are usually circumcised. If not then the frenulum is fairly stretched out or perhaps even cut.If you are tight then you might feel some pain during sex and perhaps even tear the frenulum. That is why stretching really helps.
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With enough lubrication, you shouldn't have any pain. When she gets sexually excited, she will secrete natural lubrication in her vagina that will make it easy for you penis to slide in and out without tugging on your skin. Your foreskin may slide back and forth over the head with each in and out thrust, or it may not. A lot of it depends if you insert your penis at first with your foreskin over the head or with it pulled back, and it depends on how lubed up everything is, and how tight the vagina is. The important thing is that your foreskin can retract past the head comfortably, if it needs to. Sex is much less pleasurable if your foreskin never moves back to expose the head. So you shouldn't get pain when you push in to the vagina. If for some reason you do, just add more lubrication like K-Y, and you won't have any problem.
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yeah, wheneva i do ne kind of simulation masturbation, my penis hurts and the skin rolls back and hurts, the frenulum or watvea u were talking about, i'v also wondered about whether it will be the same during intercourse and whether it will hurt too much.thanx josh
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My foreskin is so loose, I can pull it down so far it totally disappears, and you'd never know I had one. I never even stretched it deliberately. I thought that every other guy was the same until I came here. Stretching the foreskin - what the hell for? I thought.Mine comes down over the head and then further, into oblivion, so it seems. It just disappears.
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my foreskin pulls back over the head of my penis but when semi hard i have loads of travel down the upper side of my penis but the frenulum is restricting the other side so when fully erect i have my foreskin lying just below the head of my penis- if the frenulum was longer my foreskin would travel down my penis- do i need surgery for this or can i stretch it out- should i just just leave things like they are or would a woman think it odd? please help!
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i'm pretty much like this guy has illustrated with pics..........http://www.addicks3.fsnet.co.uk/nat/stiff/lostskin/lostskin.htm...............i would really appreciate it if anyone could check it out and tell me what they think!!- how come some people can roll their foreskin back all the way down the shaft of their penis (till it disappears almost like circumcision)- do they have long frenulums!!? please help!
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wait a minute? when you have sex, you're supposed to have the foreskin rolled back the whole time? i've just been going right in. isn't the skin rubbing against the head supposed to give extra pleasure?i can roll it right back, but it's not exactly loose...i mean i have to gentle and slow when i roll it back. is it supposed to looser
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When masterbating (or having sex, for that matter), do we leave the penis as it is when first inducing the orgasm then, when ejaculating open the foreskin; ORdo we leave it open all the time?[I don't know why, but i can masterbate while the foreskin is not retracted at all, and it feels more comfy. weird]I have just rolled my skin down to the head during the entire length of school (>7hrs). Is this recommended? There is also some swelling.I REALLY APPRECIATE ASAP ADVICE.
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Hey bud, don't leave your foreskin retracted and "stuck" behind the head of your penis for long times like that. It slows the flow of blood into the head of your penis and can damage it. That swelling is probably the result of being rolled down like that for so long. Should return to normal soon. Try retracting the foreskin next time you masturbate...bet it'll be different and you'll like it.
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Thansk a bunch, but:"When masterbating (or having sex, for that matter), do we leave the penis as it is when first inducing the orgasm then, when ejaculating open the foreskin; ORdo we leave it open all the time duing such activities?"
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For the most part, your foreskin should easily slip over the head of your penis and onto the shaft while doing anything sexual...masturbation, intercourse, oral..any of that. As you thrust or stroke it should be moving up and down the shaft. Unless of course you want it completely smooth by keeping it tight around the bottom. When wearing a condom...retract your foreskin and then put the condom on...that helps with penetration and prevents the condom from bunching up in the foreskin possibly causing it to tear or rip. Some guys though don't retract things and seem to be fine (as they have told us here) So, while this is probably best,its up to you. Heres a tip though..when you really start touching and exposing the head of your penis ...expect it to be very sensitive for a while, that's natural. Hope this helps, please feel free to keep asking away, that's why we're here.
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Ok... so what's a ROUGH estimate of the time whereby this glans will be sensitive?
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Hey bud, its different for each of us, sometimes its just a few weeks or so after they start working with it some, for others it may be several months...depends on how sensitive, how old you are (length of time its been covered so much) and how consistent you are in exposing it to touch. Good luck, keep us posted!
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hehe that link of that penis, that dudes head is huge compared to his shaft. I bet the hardest part of having sex with a girl for him is forcing that part in. Makes me wonder if it makes a "popping" sound when it goes into her pussy. :grin:
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When he pulls out, does it pop like a cork being pulled from a bottle of wine?
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LOL sdp thats what I'm wondering. I bet if there was enough of a vaccum effect it would. Kinda like how some girls can push air out of their pussys and make a queefing (sp?) sound otherwise known as a pussy fart
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Same here SilentRain. Mine started staying retracted behind the head when I was around 16. Very flexible foreskin.