Ok so I am 16 and will soon be going on a date with this girl (i'm a guy) next week. i'm jut nervous because I have never kissed a girl befoer and probably suck, I dont know what to do. any advice?
Good advice for a beginner is this. Less is more. It's better to have less than enough tongue than too much.
Remember, kissing is meant to feel good. Think about slow and sensual. Especially if you've never kissed the girl before.
i say just let your instinct tell you what to do. for me, i wasnt too great the first couple of times, but now my gf says im an awesome kisser, and ive never gotten advice about it or anything so yeah.
edit: btw, fight club was an amazing movie
Being well informed will get you a long way, even without experience. Being well informed can give you the ability to be a good kisser the first time you kiss, or even a good lover the first time you have sex. Think, gather information, study, and analyze.
First 2 to little peck kisses on the lips. Then hold the third one for like 2 seconds then open your mouth (she should follow) if she doesn't put her tounge in your mouth for about 10 seconds, you have to make the move to.
P.S Don't slam it down her throat.
Good luck, I'm sure you'll do fine.
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i think i did ok for my first time...just remember to match her mouth...if she isnt opening it that far dont try and swollow her whole...when she opens try and keep your lips in sync. lol i learn this from howard stern... we went for a whole hour and she was an amazing kisser so i think it works..
All first kisses are awkward and no matter how much experience someone may have, their next kiss can be just as bad. It can take some time to find a rythm with the other person! Every girl that I have kissed is different and every initial kiss didn't feel perfect, almost to the point where I wanted to stop and try again at a later time. If you haven't kissed anyone before, don't worry, the other person will probably be as nervous as you and it will take a bit of time to get comfortable. Before I had my first kiss, I used to practice on the soft part of my hand, between the thumb and forefinger. All the others on here have given good advice, that is 'less is more'. You may find that the other person is giving 'too much' and you may feel claustrophobic LOL . Just go with the flow and as long as you are attracted and comfortable with this person you shouldn't have a problem.