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wow this is what I'm talking about

Well its how some people are. Young teens want it cause their body says they do and people in their twenties want it cause they've got nothing better to do really. When you get older it becomes less important.

pfft not necessarily

Well obviously. Personally, sex doesn't interest me too much. I joke about it all the time and make constant sexual references, but when it comes down to it, I'd rather do a lot of things with my gf other than having sex.

Im 35, I still want it all the time. Im lucky enough to have a girl that wants it all the time too so it works out well for us.Sex isnt as important for meas it used to be, we go out, do shit, have a good time, all of that but we still like to fuck like rabid fiends. Its not as important as it once was, but the desire never left to have it, its just not the be all end all of our relationship.

Im 34 and want it all the time too. If I didnt have sex I would get a divorce unless it was some horrible accident where she could not physically do it. Then I would have to get sex somewhere else.

haha see now that's a selfish and ugly attitude/response and the exact opposite of an answer I was looking for. Don't come to me. and just for your info, that was a SARCASTIC laugh. your answer was BLAHWhere's the love and passion in these relationships? I mean jeez. Like Angel's marriage, she has sex and can still LOVE somebody with or without the sex. Or with Helms and his relationship. Bob.. well he's always kinky but you get the point. Do you NEED to have sex in order to love someone?

Personally I think being friends first doesn't work. But I agree that relationships should be more than sex, much more. It's awesome to have it, and frequently I might add, but it isn't the be all and end all in my relationship.

I've loved without having sex and my girlfrriend stayed with me and I think loved me despite the fact I wouldnt sleep with her. But theres nothing inherently wrong with wanting it, theres nothing wrong even with wanting sex and not the other aspects of the relationship...thats just a sure enough sign that your only attracted physically and not mentally and thus it follows that you shouldnt try with the mental stuff because you just dont have that going for you. But there will be other people to whome you are physically AND mentally attracted to. You just got to take each person as a seperate case and not be too bothered if one aspect doesnt work with one person.As to Joebloggs, alot of people think that but I think its actualy not atall true. My best mate in school was a girl.

You don't NEED sex to love someone, but it complements the love you feel for someone. My manthing is going through depression at the mo and to be honest his sex drive is at an all time low, so we don't do it that often, that doesn't mean that i love him any less, and we still kiss and cuddle. I think women find it easier to love without sex than men do mind you, men are more physical and women are more emotional.

I said friends FIRST. From my personal experience I don't think it works. I've had much greater success with females I've showed a sexual interest in from the start, rather than becoming friends first. Having said that I do come from an all boys school.

Ah yes, I misread. And on that I'd agree with you.

I agree with the whole being friends first thing, probably because I'm not very confident around guys that I fancy when I first meet them, so I never get anywhere with them. It's kind of guy says something, I giggle nervously, they walk away. Meh.The best relationship I had was with a guy who I'd been friends with for a couple of years before another friend pointed out how much we'd started flirting with each other. We never really did all that much sex stuff, because we enjoyed spending time with our friends as well as each other, but when we did it was great. Unfortunately we've broken up now, because we went to different uni's and he didn't think he could handle a long distance relationship, but we're still good friends and have fun (as friends, not sexually!) in the holidays. I think I'd rather have a great friend than someone who aways wants to have sex.

See exactly pinkroses. That's what I mean. Why should you 'want' sex in order to love someone or have a relationship with someone. What about young couples? If the peoople in love are young. Do they NEED to have sex to be "physically attracted" as Joebloggs said? That's annoying.

Listen here, both my wifes have been physically and sexually raped by thier father or uncle. I pay the price as well, ie. flashbacks, sex sometimes brings back those memories. So I am a normal healthy sexuall 34 year old wishing for more sex as it is. My wife doesnt care much for it and encourages me to look elsewhere. Of course I dont. But if I was cut off completely I would probably seek sex elsewhere. I make no opologies. I am faithfull now.

What do you find wrong with sex? Our physical attraction to each other is based on sexual desire, its what our bodies are built for and its one of the only things that we know that we should do. It is our purpose as living organisms to breed and create offspring. Its our nature and the nature of every living thing on this planet.So what is wrong with wanting it, or basing part of a relationship on it? It is a sign that you are interested in having a family with the person you are with. Obviously without the emotional side it means nothing, but when combined it is a very good and healthy desire.

Exactly Bob!...Sex=Babies!= Population= Economy= Better life=sex and the world keeps on spinning!

Not quite what I was going for, but thanks for the support!

I tried did i not! Lets make a song about....Sex!

Nah, lets talk about sex... baby. Lets talk about you and me. Lets talk about all the good things, and the bad things...