My situation,please help

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hey, im in mid 20s and only realised i mite have tight foreskin about 2 months ago,doc gave me sum lube and using this i can retract skin over head when erect, but skin does not go down shaft,over the head is the most it will go, also i dont know if its cos im so scared of paraphimosis but i find it hard 2 maintain erection when retracting. finnaly how is it possible to masturbate with foreskin retracted when foreskin wont go down the shaft and the heads so sensitive?am i physically able to have sex?any help appreicatedthanks

As long as you can retract the skin back far enough that the entire head is exposed while erect with the skin sitting back behind the ridge of the head, then you're fine. Retracting the skin back further down the shaft is 'optional' and is not necessary. Some guys can retract that far, but if you can't don't worry about it. If you really want to be able to, try the stretching exercises listed in this forum. Your erection problem when retracting is caused by exactly what you described - your fear. Don't worry about it - it sounds like you are retracting fine and you don't have phimosis. In the event your foreskin does get stuck behind the head when hard, remember to just squeeze the head firmly with your fingers to make the head smaller, and your foreskin should slide back forward. It's not a big deal, and nothing to worry about. The action of the foreskin sliding back and forth over the head and the ridge of the head should feel pleasurable to you. If it doesn't now, keep practicing, and as you get used to the sensations, you will probably enjoy it more.

but the foreskin wont go back over the head till its flacid, during sex does the foreskin go over the head and back(and forth) when erect? cos mine will not go back over the head when erect,thus i dont know how to masturbate or how sex is gonna be pleasurable cos i cannot bring the foreskin back and forth along the head head/ridge

For some the skin goes back and forth during sex. For me, it stays tucked behind the head during sex.

If you can't retract when erect, then you need to read the tons of threads regardng stretching. Did you look at the Male Anatomy thread above?

i can retract when erect,using lube(actually ive only done it at 95% erect,still havnt tried when your really really turned on and harder than ever), you say yours stays behind yer head during sex? what about for masturbating?

I use the skin to go back and forth over the head. I usually do not have direct contact with the head.

thats how i usually masturbate,but i thought i should try to start masturbating when retracted too,or do you mean your skin keeps going back(completely over the head) and forth when erect & retracted,as i usually do it without retraction all my life

IDK. you are confusing me now. I can retract when erect although I don't necessarily pull back all the way when doing it. In the end, it doesn't really matter.

i usualy masturbate without retraction,but you use retraction during masturbation right?

No not really.

bottom line does it matter if i cant pull skin back and forth over head? once its back behind head i have 2 wait till flacid to get back over head

If you can't get it back over the head when erect, then it is too tight and you need to do some stretching. Follow instructions in threads which are easily found.

right,i am and will continuing doing strecthes,but my problem seems to be maintaining erection, i get hard,then when retracting it softens,and when i try to push foreskin back over head whilst erect it softens more and the skin goes over as the penis has become smallerhas anyone had this before? the actual retraction leads to penis softening and as i cant pull skin over without it geting small i have no way of getting it hard again when retracted

I think once you get your foreskin stretched a bit with the stretching exercises, you will find it easy to push your foreskin forward when hard, and you won't lose your erection anymore.