Ok, I posted a while back about a girl and that didn't work out. Now it's a different girl, but close to the same situation. We've been working together for about 2 months now, and everytime we are around eachother we flirt and mess with eacvother. The thing that makes me think she really likes me is she hovers around me. She'll be talking to me and I could go outside for something and she'll just follow me and continue the srory. This always happens, even if we aren't talking. The only weird thing about it is I'll ask her if she wants to go eat or to a movie and she gets excited, and then a couple days later says something came up, or she was really tired, or she got called in to work or whatever. I just hate how she seems so interested most of the time, but when it comes down to doing something she flakes out.... Do you think she's just a huge tease, or maybe she has a boyfriend that she's not telling me about? I have no idea, and any advice would be great!! Thanks everybody
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Same old question
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She may have mood swings. Or perhaps she feels unworthy to go out with you when it comes to it. Or perhaps her parents stop her and she doesn't want to admit it. There are many other possibilities too.
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I could be wrong, but she sounds like a flirt/tease. I've encountered so many of them, especially in the work place. If she was genuinley interested in you, there is NO WAY she would turn down an offer to go out, especially if its more than once. Just give her compliments and see how she reacts, otherwise stop giving her the attention she is so obviously craving and see what she does.
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hard to say..either is a flirt and gets her kicks from knowing that you are intersted in her and u ask her out.or there are real reasons to why she doesnt come out. could be bad reasons, could be insecurities.only one who is gonna know is her unfortunately
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I must say these are all really good points, especially laststarfighter... It must be that she just likes to tease and flirt because if she liked me we'd be going out by now. So yeah, I guess tomorrow I'm gonna see what I can think up and I'll talk to her. Thanks everybody!!
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Good luck mate and don't worry too much what the outcome is. I can tell you from experience that its not worth wasting your energy on those type of girls and the one's that are genuinley interested in you will never turn down an opportunity to see you outside of work, or at the very least they will give you some feedback. For example, "I'm not free because I have a family committment to attend to, but how about we see a movie next week instead?" You may also find that the girl who doesn't flirt is the one most interested in you. The one's who flirt have no fear of rejection because they have big ego's from all the attention they have received from countless guy's.