My girlfriend and I reeeaaaallly wanna have sex without a condom. We both are clean (we are each others' only sex partners) and we have never had sex without a condom before. However, no way in hell do we want her to get pregnant. As of now, she is both on the pill and we use a condom. She knows someone who had two kids on the pill, so we wouldn't just just rely on that. We were thinking we would have sex without a condom if we could use another type of birth control with the pill. Do you think that using the rhythm method and the pill would be ok? That is where we would only have condomless sex during the period from about the 1st to the 9th day of her period.) We also considered spermicide. Where would you buy that, and is it easy to use?Thanks!
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Pill + Rhythm method
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Spermecide containing Non Oxynol -9 is NOT recommended, so avoid that. The Rhythm method is very hard to calculate, even when you have a professional helping you guys oout. The hman body is highly unpredictable when it comes to these things. So take your chances if you'd like, but remember the consequences.
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There really is no rhythm method here since she's on the pill.
Being on the pill is pretty safe as slong as she takes it regularly and at the same time. To be extra safe you can do it just before/during her period and ejaculate outside of the vagina.
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Because she's on the pill, she controls when her period begins to the day.
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Originally Posted By: sdpBeing on the pill is pretty safe as slong as she takes it regularly and at the same time.We just don't trust this because she knows a family who has had two kids while the mom was on the pill. Originally Posted By: sdpTo be extra safe you can do it just before/during her period and ejaculate outside of the vagina. Is it really that common to have sex during her period? It sounds like it would be gross to me. Wouldn't I get nastiness all over me?
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Originally Posted By: soccersmitty55
We just don't trust this because she knows a family who has had two kids while the mom was on the pill.
Well, like sdp pointed out, ejaculate outside her. No sperm, no baby.Originally Posted By: soccersmitty55
Is it really that common to have sex during her period? It sounds like it would be gross to me. Wouldn't I get nastiness all over me?
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she knows a family who has had two kids while the mom was on the pill. But then again she doesn't know her schedule of taking pills, if there were skipped pills, interactions with other medication, etc... BC is over 99% effective. If you don't want the risk, continue with condoms or don't have sex at all.