How to give a "good" blowjob

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what are some tips/pointers when you give a guy head?

I found this information, I hope it helps, I get horny just reading it!! (lol)www.sex-project.comFirst Time Performing Fellatio (blowjobs)First of all, there are a few simple guidelines you can keep in mind when you are sucking your man's penis that will greatly improve the quality. For best results, try using at least some variety with these to make them "your own" techniques and your man will love you all the more for it:1. Really like the penis that you're sucking. Act like you absolutely love giving him a blowjob. This is much easier if you really do. If he knows you love doing it, he'll relax and enjoy it more.2. Don't let any air in through the back of the throat, make big vacuum.3. Use horizontal strumming with the tongue across the base of the head on the underside of the penis to make it hard if its not already, if it is then use this to tease it.4. Use the top of the tongue to make friction on the head, pressing it up against the roof of the mouth.5. Watch your teeth. This seems pretty obvious but if they are pressing against the penis as you stroke, it can pretty much kill the sensation. keep them retracted and let your tongue and lips do the talking.With these in mind, here are some more pieces of general advice for novice cock-sucking:Deep-throating apparently requires handling the gag reflex by swallowing when it happens. In my opinion, it isn't that important. Complete enclosure isn't the strong point of oral stimulation. If that is important to you, try something else. She may be able to help by using her hands on the part of the shaft she can't enclose. The advantage of oral stimulation is the control and variety it provides, which are only available with shallow penetration anyway.It can help if you are hungry when you do it. Never attempt going down on a guy if you've eaten a big meal recently. Make sure that you're not thirsty when you start. For some reason thirst closes up the back of your throat.Also, concentrate on breathing through your nose deeply while doing it. (This is the only way I can hold off choking on my toothbrush every morning.)Vary your pace of stroking up and down. He'll most likely cum once you get faster and keep going.According to Linda Lovelace of "Deep Throat" fame, the most comfortable way to give a blow job is if your throat is straight. In order to achieve this, try laying on his chest.She also suggests that you practice by sticking your fingers down your throat and wiggling them around until you feel the gag reflex and then ease off. Repeat until you've defeated the reflex, it'll take time she says.

I found some advanced techiques on the same website, Enjoy! Oral Sex TechniquesTHE BUTTERFLY FLUTTERThe best position for this very sensuous cocksucking movement is kneeling over your partner. If he is on his back kneel between his legs, or kneel in front of your partner while he stands. I like this position because the cock feels thicker in your mouth and throat and you have complete freedom to play with his balls while performing this maneuver.This technique was first introduced to me by a cocksucker in northern California. There was a notorious movie theater in downtown San Francisco with a darkened balcony, a cocksucker's haven, and this girl had us lined up. You knew from the moans emanating from the guy's throat who was getting his cock sucked that this girl was that one in a thousand who knew how to please a variety of fresh cockmeat. It felt so good that I studied her closely while she was sucking cock. Not only did I observe the guys who were getting the radical suck, but I got down close to the cock and observed how she was maneuvering around it. She created the basic vacuum pressure on the cock but only enough pressure to pull the cock into her mouth ever so slightly.With her lips firmly wrapped around the guy's big swollen cock head and shaft she would gently flick the tip of the cock with her tongue. With her lips open around the cock at a depth so that she could touch the tip of the cock with the tip of her tongue. With her lips around the cock shaft she would make an up and down movement with her tongue. She would flutter her tongue up and down the tip of the cock.I recommend you try it. It will drive your Butterfly Flutter partner back into your mouth at any hour you want him there. After several minutes of this continue with the basic vacuum suck.THE TRAVELLING FIGURE-EIGHTAfter you have become comfortable with the basic vacuum suck and you have become accustomed to his cock deep in your mouth and throat try this action. It is guaranteed to take his breath away. With your lips firmly wrapped around the cock shaft try very slowly to reach the base of the shaft or as close to it as you are comfortable. Your nose should be buried in or at least touching the pubic hairs at the base of the cock.With your nose trace a figure eight as if the figure eight were lying on it's side. Your figure eight motion should be three to four inches long. Slowly travel up the shaft of the cock to the head, doing the figure eight motion. Keep doing this motion and let your lips firmly travel up and down the cock shaft. Do this for as long as you are comfortable with it. Believe me your man is floating in orbit as his wildest dreams of the ultimate blow job are coming true.I give credit for this most erogenous technique to a member of "The Cocksuckers Club of America" who lives in Oregon. He and his partner were on vacation down in Southern California and they visited me while here. After seeing him scrape his partner off the ceiling when he did the Traveling Figure Eight, I rushed right into my bedroom and perfected it on my own partner! When you get tired of the movement slow down and return to the basic vacuum suck.By this time you are becoming more and more confident with your partner. His cock feels great as it fills your mouth and throat. The cock is becoming harder and warmer as your warm moist mouth and throat create friction by going up and down that big beautiful cock. It is time to cool his tool just a little with this technique.I take full credit for this one myself! From tho time I hit puberty I was fascinated by cocks. Big ones, little ones, cut ones, uncut ones, crooked ones, straight ones. All shapes, all sizes. I wanted to feel them down my throat! Combine this very basic love of cocksucking with an inherent fear of not being able to take cock and completely satisfy the customer and you can imagine how I felt. I needed a technique that would feel good in my mouth and would feel good for my partner. Here's what I came up with:Go down on the cock shaft as far as you are comfortable. All the while your lips should be firmly wrapped around the shaft. Open your mouth as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. While sucking in air let your open mouth travel up to the cock head. Your up stroke motion should end at the head of his cock just as your lungs fill with air. Now with your mouth still open let the air in your lungs out slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the cock shaft. This technique cools the cock on the up stoke and warms the cock with your hot breath on the down stroke. Do this movement as long as you like then return to the basic vacuum suck method.THE CIRCLEPlace his stiff cock inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The cock will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one.A kneeling position will suffice but it is also effective when your partner is on his back and your head is directly over his cock. The circle should be executed in both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner.THE LOLLIPOP LICKWith your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front lift his hard cock to reveal his balls. With your tongue find the underside of his balls. Now, while resting his balls on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his cock. It is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is better to do this technique several times in succession-like licking a lollipop or ice cream cone.

thanks alot!!also one more question--> when ur giving a guy head.... what should you be doing with your hands and where should they be??

I have never sucked a guys dick before but I want too, about your hands I would probably hold on to his dick and caress his balls while you suck him, I just wish I was in your position I am very jealous of what you get to do!

I never cared for too much different stuff like that. The biggest part is when a she or he actually likes doing it, just avoid teeth.

any females want to practice on me just feel free to ask , am free at weekends lol

69 is also a very sensual position, though you may want to keep your pants on and squeeze his head between your legs, tightly. The pressure heightens the sensations. Plus it's easier to swallow in this position.

I have found that the guys I've been with love it when I put one of my hands on his penis, underneath my mouth, like I am giving him a handjob. If you keep your hand close to your lips and move them up and down at the same time, he will think you are putting it in deeper than it really is. I sometimes use my other hand to touch his body in other places, or I usually use it to hold myself up since I do it kneeling between his legs while he is lying on the bed.

What xozeroxo says is a great idea. I love it when someone does this while performing oral on me. Very hot. And you don't have to take it very deep for me as I'm more into lots of lip and tongue action.it was said earlier and I agree, the best blowjobs come from someone who is really into it. If you don't enjoy doing them, it shows and it makes them less enjoyable. I'm cool with someone saying they are not into it - I don't have to have one.