I'm 17 and a Junior in highschool. I've been dating this girl since the end of last year and this has been the longest relationship I've ever been in. I'm a decent looking guy, and my girlfriend is gorgeous and a good catch.
She's had sex before from a rather aggressive guy, although she puts on the I'm-Not-A-Slut damage control a lot. She's actually extremely sexual, and I just recently (few months ago) started fingering her.
I'm a virgin and I'm uncircumcised. Honestly, I like my foreskin. I like my sensitivity. HOWEVER, I simply cannot pull back my foreskin over my erect penis. My frenulum is long enough, but the foreskin ring is too small. When Im flaccid, I can pull it back (with a little resistance), but then the glans is sensitive to even air. Don't really care though. In the vagina it wont matter.
Anyhow, we've been dating for 6+ months and shes used to a more sexual relationship although we are really happy with eachother. But GOD DAMN. Recently shes been getting mores sexual with me, and I really return the aggressiveness. However, I really dont know what to do about my penis. Shes never really seen it.
To control my situation since I dont really know what I CAN do sexually, I told her i have a "hyper sensitivity" problem and I cant really have sex because id be too stimulated.
Bullshit. Sounds legit though. Sounds better than telling her my foreskin is too tight, in my opinion. I told her the problem would leave by the summer as I intended to use this Glansie tool off of a website to stretch my foreskin out (which is all I want to do i think).
However, Summer is here. She's been unzipping my pants and such but I keep saying no (other guys would think Im fucking insane). My foreskin is tight. I almost feel like Im going to lose this opportunity because of my damn foreskin problem.
I dont really know what to do. Im thinking of having sex with a condom over my whole penis (with the foreskin still covering the glans). Anyone think this would work?
I'm considering some options. I might go to the penis doctor or my GP and ask him for advice, but he'd probably chop me off. I really dont want a circumcision. The healing process would take forever, and thats a LOT of erogenous, sexual sensors being cut off. The foreskin is very stimulating to me and I feel it helps me get it up easier.
I guess ill do the 1)pulling the skin as far as I can down the hard glans and hold and 2) stick my fingers in the ring and stretch it like that.
How long should I hold these out? How long will these take to see a difference?
Also, can I get just the tight ring removed? would this remove too much of the peasure sensors im used to and change sex too much for me?
God, my situation really sucks. Id feel so shitty if I come out of this relationship with no sex.
Please, I dont want any "sucks for you" responses.
Im really looking for some suggestions, support, and maybe some people that have been in my shoes.
Once again, is a foreskin RING (not complete circumcision) a good idea or is it too dramatically different?
I feel SO shitty when I REJECT MY OWN GIRLFRIEND from doing things to me other guys would kill for. Can ANYONE relate to me?
Once again, my foreskin can go over my flaccid glans but hardly even halfway over my erect glans. Can a condom put over my whole unexposed penis let me have sex? I dont really care that it will be pretty much double layered and anti sensitive. I want to have SOME passable and unnoticable (to her) degree of sex.