hey alli have a problem which is pretty wierd but am wondering if any one here can shed some lightwhen i'm with this girl and am kissing and hugging and getting all close, the man downstairs wakes up and stands at attention. not much of a problem there.the problem is, that about 1/2 an hour after there is no more excitement, i get some testicular painnote: there is no sexual action going on between this girl and i, rather just hugging etc.also if i sneeze (tenses up body) the pain is very bad!does ANYONE have any idea what is going on??it slowly goes away... but quite slowly
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Testicular pain
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I assume you are fairly young. This is commonly referred to as "blue balls." The "kissing and hugging and getting all close" is a part of foreplay and your body is getting ready for much more, i.e. ejaculation. When the activity does not lead to ejaculation in some way (intercourse, blowjob, handjob, masturbation) the sore balls will commonly occur. As you have seen, the tenderness eventually goes away and should cause no longterm problem.
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Yes - to add to what readytogo said, blue balls is caused by sexual excitement without release (orgasm & ejaculation). When you get sexually excited and turned on, extra blood rushes to the testicles to prepare for ejaculation. If no ejaculation occurs, the extra blood tends to stay in the testicles for a while, putting extra pressure in the blood vessels inside the testicles, which causes the pain or aching. Its also called vascular congestion. Although it sounds like it may be harmful, its not - just causes some uncomfort. The solution to remedy the pain is to either ejaculate, or just wait a few hours, and the extra blood will flow out of the testicles by itself and the pain will go away. Its a very common phenomenon and is perfectly normal.
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oh ok. thanks In reply to: I assume you are fairly young this only happens when you're young? i'm 20... i thought it might be that 'blue balls thign' but the thing is, when i've had that pain before, i've ejaculated myself and its done nothing but hurt more during and hurt the same afterwards..
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Do you notice this pain in both testicles? Or just one side? Have you noticed any enlarged veins in your scrotum around your testicles?
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both. dont recall any large veins....