I bought this device called the Glansie (google it) which is an expansion tool used to stretch the foreskin. First of all, stretching the foreskin is unpleasurable and just reminds me how unfair life it. How much effort I have to put into my own bodily disfiguration just to have a normal, functional penis. However, I can pull the Glansie all the way apart and feel no pain as my girth is too big for it.God. I was hoping I could just go to sleep with it on for a couple weeks. But nope.Anyhow, IM DONE with the worrying. With the stretching. I realized that I AM SUFFERING FROM SEXUAL FRUSTRATION. I really am. I get so frustrated when I try to stretch myself. I start tearing up sometimes.Anyhow, after Googling "Adult Circumcision" and looking around, Im REALLY CONSIDERING DOING IT. I probably want the loosest circumcision I can get to preserve my current sexual feeling. Regreting the procedure would be FAR WORSE than just have uncut problems. Anyone here get a late circumcision? Right now I masterbate by keeping the end of my (long) foreskin way over my glans. I sort of start low and push up, making sure i dont pull the foreskin over my glans a little bit (it only goes about halfway up my glans when erect). But I AM DONE. Im TIRED of masturbating like this. I want to be carefree.And as I said In part 1, i have an AWESOME girlfriend of 6-7 Months. GORGEOUS girl. I just want her to be comfortable with my decision and that she can support me and wait for me. I'm only 17. She's only 16.Can you imagine dating a very sexual and sexy girl, a girl that would be able to fulfill every one of your sexual needs, but your tight foreskin is keeping you back? Keeping you a virgin? Then you break up with her (run out of time) without having sex, then you see her with another guy some months later and KNOW theya re having sex? THIS IS MY FEAR IN LIFE RIGHT NOW. I even quit smoking to just concentrate on this problem.Can anyone hear me and understand what I'm going through at all? Please.And most importantly, can anyone give me the info on adult circumcision (personal experience most prefered). I suppose I find a local urologist to do the procedure.Anyone here get a circumcision at age 16-17+?Im really breaking down. I cant really talk to this with anyone. Everyone I know save a handful is circumcised and the uncut guys have fully retractable foreskin.Im to the point where people I dont even know on an online community I just found an hour ago can offer me SOME feeling of comfort or SOMETHING I hope.And input/advice? Thanks.
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Uncut Story Part 2. MY DECISION
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Pfff. You are making such a big deal of this man. Here's all you need to do.1. Be honest with your girlfriend.2. Fuck her with a condom on (as you would anyway)3. Do the stretching exercises detailed in this forum.Stop overcomplicating your life with such a minor problem. I told my girlfriend of 1 month that I had a tight foreskin, she didn't care in the slightest, it doens't matter at all once you have a condom on.
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Hey bud - first, lets calm down. Of course you're frustrated - but don't rush a decision on getting cut, that is something you may regret one day. That foreskin of yours CAN be stretched - it requires patience and some consistent work on your part. You can do this bro - covering your penis with a condom for sex is a great way to start....plenty of uncut guys do that. Read up on the stretching exercises we've got posted here on the site - and if you want support, Joe has some great information about his overcoming this issue!
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lolthere are starving kids in ethiopia yu knowI have a tight foreskin also, im doing something about it, so should you whether its stretching or circ. just breathe lol
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I probably want the loosest circumcision I can get to preserve my current sexual feeling.
Loosest will not preserve feeling. It may SEEM like it after the surgery, but it will not remain the same over time.
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If done by a reputable doc, removing foreskin should not be a problem. It obviously prevents you from normal function and your stretchy machine is too small. It will take awhile to heal as of any cuts, and you must wear loose fitting shorts or pants, not only for pain, but to keep air on it to prevent infection once the banaids come off. Your head might be incredibly sensitive for quite awhile as it would be exposed.
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Couple of things. First of all, I don't really believe that an uncut penis is that much more sensitive than an uncut one. Considering that 80% of males in the U.S. are cirucmcised, and the majority of men don't last as long as they want to, then cut penises must be sensitive enough.A close friend of mine had an adult circumcision and he said after he got used to it, he has not noticed a difference in sensitivity.And there are more hygiene considerations with uncut - not much, but more effort is requried to keep them clean.And there are issues such as the one your having and other complications of having a foreskin.Even considering all the above, I do not advocate routine circumcision and will not have my son circumcised. I don't believe in unnecessary surgery of any kind and especially in the case of a child who can't even voice his own opinion.In your case, I'd go with what the others have said on here. Even though I don't believe you'll lose a lot after you have the procedure done, why take the chance of having something go wrong and end up with a disfigured penis?Your problem should easily be resolved with stretching exercises but, if it is not, then you should see a urologist about it. He might be able to suggest other methods and/or techniques to improve the effectiveness of your stretching.If all else fails, you can always have the circumcision done, but I wouldn't do that except as a last resort.
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Thanks a lot.I sort of was breaking down last night with frustration after I found out my $100 Glansie stretcher couldn't cure me to the point of complete erect head retraction.I guess stretching is either way the fastest way to a healthy retraction. I have yet to see a urologist although I really want to. I don't understand the embarassments others have. I'll go infront of the press naked to get a working dick. I'll just man-up and commit myself to stretching.Thanks
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You really never mentioned how long you have been doing stretching. If it's only a short period, then you really do need to give it some more time and effort.If things don't work out, then you can consider a circ. You mention that you have a large girth. What about the glans. What size are we talking about here? Have you measured? Perhaps if you are very large, stretching will never be sufficient.
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Cut penis' are said to be less sensitive because of the glans drying from all the exposure and rubbing against clothing and such. That and statistics. But ya know those are just numbers.The majority of men don't last as long for MANY factors. The sensitivity of the penis is just 1 of the many.How long did it take your friend to get used to it???? It won't make a noticeable difference in sensitivity sometimes for years, maybe less.What???? Much more effort????? More like 0.5-3 seconds longer to clean it than a cut penis. It's not like its a friggin chore.
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Yeah, I've heard about the drying out of the glans but really don't feel like it cuts down on pleasure sensations. In fact, I've read/heard that some uncut guys can barely touch their glans with the foreskin retracted because it's way to sensitive to the touch.Yes, I agree there are many factors to premature ejaculation. However, I seriously doubt that if circumcision caused such a loss of pleasure, that premature ejaculation would be as widespread as it appears to be here in the U.S., since so many men are circumcised.I did not say it took much more effort to clean an uncut penis, just that it took more (0.5 - 3 seconds is more.) I was not implying that it was a "friggin chore."My friend had his done just out of college because he kept having retraction problems and I guess none of us nor the doctors he saw knew about or thought much of stretching exercises back then. It was sixteen years ago and he still doesn't feel that he's lost any sexual sensation because of it. From your response it seems that you think I am anti-uncircumcised. Did you not read that I was discouraging him getting cut? And that I wouldn't have my son cut?
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I think most the guys uncut guys who complain about so much sensitivity are the ones who haven't reatracted for a long time/all their lives.
Well many Americans are worked really hard. I hear stress is a huge factor in premature ejaculation.
Sorry wasn't implying you said much more. And was just stating that it isn't a friggin chore like lotsa of ppl are told its made out to be. That's why the whole "its easier to clean" argument is used by ppl who know barely anything about circumcision. They've been told that by others.
Well if he hasn't lost any sensitivity in his opinion, then he's one of the lucky ones I imagine.
I read it and I saw that you do not advocate routine circumcision AND wouldn't have your son cut. Just merely putting some statements/questions.
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Circumcision in my opinion would be the answer as i have just recently had a sucessful circumcisionas many know on here i was getting depressed when i had phimosis and stretching wasnt helping , i must admit i am glad i went to see GP and then Urologist and got Circ'd after a 6 month wait on the waiting listsee your GP mate and then he'll refer you to Urologistmy opinion