i have always had a boyfriend, butnow i go toa new school andno guys dig me,and ihave been rele upsetlately. i monly 13 but i am used to being toldim beautiful,and thatim loved, and it sucks not a a boyfriend. how can i turn on some boyto notice me???
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DESPERATE
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Hiya, I'm not gonna say what sum other people might, (that you're 13 and so shouldn't be worrying about boyfriends) cos i know how you feel. How do you know that no guys like you? Just 'cos no one has said they like you dusn't mean that no one does. Just hang out with some guys at your school and try and pick up on anything that hints that one of them likes you, and then if you like him just ask him if he'll take you out sometime, or wait for him to ask you. Hope this helps
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I agree, your too young to need a boyfriend. They will come one day dont worry. At least your not concidered a slut.
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lol wow we live in total opposite worlds haha we should switch lives. um, I'm not and will never be used to guys hitting on me because it's really weird and annoying espcially when the guy is twice my age (except for Julian McMahon!!! sexii papi!!) and unfortunately it happens alot in various places. It was different when I transferred from a Christian private school to a public school. Most of the guys are pervs and just want to get into your pants instead of the sweet godly like guys at my old school that I'm used to. Man I miss them lol. Don't rush into things and calm down. It's not that serious. You don't need a man at this age. And no offense but that statement sounded a bit conceited. Just saying
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ok,maybe its a good thing ur boyfreindless. i mean, sounds like ur getting a little relyant on all the attention u get from haveing a bf and need it 2 feel good about urself.u dont need a boyfreind 2 feel good about urself or 2 be happy. who gives a crap if u dont have a bf? u r ur own person and try learning to b happy with urself b4 u can b happy with another person
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Yes, it's not healthy to need someone else to feel OK about yourself. When you are happy with yourself by yourself, then you'll be ready for a healthy partnership, and you'll find people will find you more attractive, less clingy.
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When I was thirteen, a long, long time ago (last year) The only way we would ask someone out is if the girl liked us first. And we knew the girl liked us when their friends told us. It's like a shitty ladder or love and pain.
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It's like a shitty ladder or love and pain. I love that line