How many of you cannot retract your foreskin over your erect glans, but have sex?I'm a virgin but eager to have sex with my girlfriend - this foreskin irretractability being the set back. I imagine I'll wear a condom when I have sex so there is no direct coital pressure pushing the foreskin painfully back. (Right?).Some feedback?
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Sex with Tight Foreskin
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sounds like you may have a phimosis ring stopping the skin pass back mate , i had the same thing.can you feel or see a ring type thing on the foreskin near the tip? and when you pull back your foreskin it like coils up? if so thats phimosisyou could try stretching or possible circumcision.oh and i wouldnt advise sex when the skin wont pass over the glans as could cause the foreskin to get stuck behind the head OR the skin could tear , sounds nasty but happens
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You should probably be fine by using a condom, but I've never been down that road...
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not that i'm advising it, but i had unprotected sex with a tight phimosis ring - basically it wouldn't go back over the glans at all, and so sex was easy. Nothing like getting pushed halfway back and getting incredible pain or anything.but yeah, with a condom would be easier i guess, and a helluva lot safer good luck! (you'll be fine)
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It's fine bud. I've had sex through all stages of foreskin tightness and it usually doesn't cause any problems. The only problem I had was when she was on top, as I entered it kind of pushed my foreskin back a bit inside the condom, but nothing horribly painful. Once you're fully inside and she's a bit lubed up you don't feel anything uncomfortable. edit all of this was of course with a condom on*
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I also have had sex with a tight foreskin, and it was no problem at all. You just need to put your fears behind you and give it a go.I can really appreciate your problem, as I was in a similar situation myself as a teenager, but I was even more inhibited than you. I was afraid of even getting into a serious relationship, but I was so ashamed of my problem, and didn't want anybody to find out. It wasn't until I was in my twenties that I was able to overcome my fears. I clearly remember the night, about 20 years ago now, when my girlfriend pulled down my trousers and got my cock out. This was the first time anyone other than me had touched my cock since I was about 10. She tried to pull the skin back, and I just said "I'm afraid the skin won't go back". She made no comment at all, and just put it in her mouth and sucked me to orgasm. After that, I felt much more at ease with my foreskin, just accepting it as a variation from normal. She wasn't too concerned about it, not nearly as much as I was.Be brave, and do want you want to do. Carry on with the stretching, or better still, get your gf to help you.Good luck!
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Anxiety is another thing.It anihilates my erections or stops them completely. But if condoms will allow me to have sex, hopefully I won't be so damn inhibited by my own worry wart.Also my girlfriend and I wouldn't be using any lube but her own. However, she is an EXTREMELY wet kind of girl. A fucking ocean when she's turned on the slightest. I doubt I'd even need lube. Just a lube condom and her natural lube .Thanks guys! Hell I'll try it tonight.