i'm an 18 year old guy, and i've been dating my girlfriend for about a month. she's my first real girlfriend, so i don't have much experience. we make out a lot, but we haven't gone much further than that. the last time we were making out, i came in my pants. it was really embarrassing. she didn't notice, but i ended our making out as soon as i could and went home. is there any way to stop this from happening in the future? i've always been easily aroused, but this is just bad. i'm worried that when we do move further, i'll cum soon after contact. should i talk to her about it? any advice would be helpful and much appreciated. thanks.
one way is to masterbate before going to her house
I’m not sure what you guys were doing that constitutes “making out” Thanks to Bill Clinton, the definitions of sexual encounters and their borders have been pushed.
I’m gonna guess that there was some heavy stimulations or rubbing on your penis to cause you to cum in your pants. I can remember that happening a few times to me when I was that age. I wasn’t able to control that awesome feeling when I passed the point of no return. I kept thinking it would continue feeling like that and thought it would last a long time and the next thing I knew , I felt that knowing churning feeling that starts in your balls and shoots up and out. Honestly, when it happened to me those few times, I left quickly too before the cum could be visible when it soaked thru my pants.
There are several things you can read on the internet about it. Being easily aroused is not the problem; learning to control the feeling and not pass the point of no return is your key. If it continues after you have tried all of the exercise techniques they recommend that you try on your own or with your girlfriend, then you can always seek medical assistance and they can prescribe something to help keep you from orgasming quickly.
I recommend you learn some ejaculatory control thru the exercises. I’m sure this little mishap probably has a lot to do with you age and experience.
Hang in there buddy. There is hope…
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It happened to my friend the first time he made out too, shit happens I guess I wouldnt worry about it. It didnt happen to him again so Im sure you will be fine. Just beat off before you go there.
erm , why does cumming stop you cumming again , surley you can just like 10-15 mins before the good old trouser titian is ready for service again
yh i could get of my arse and do soemthing with my life , but then i would have to re do my arse groove
Well, for most guys it takes more than 10-15 minutes (it depends a bit on age - it takes longer as you get older), and even when it's ready again, it's not as much on a hair-trigger.
Here's what wiki says:
Other pharmaceutical products known to delay male orgasm are; opioids, cocaine, and diphenhydramine
So there you have it. Snort a few lines before sex. May cost a bit more than those delaying condoms though...
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