i've never had this happen before. i can't tell if this guy and i are dating or steady bootycalling. he does things that make me think one - then a couple days later does something that makes me think the opposite. i plan on bringing up the topic this weekend - anyone else ever been in this situation?
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How can i tell
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Ask him! It seems a fair question.
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ask him, it will put u both in ur place and sort it out...and no, i havent been in that situation cuz i would have ASKED HIM earlyer so i no whats going on.
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i know 2 girls that were1 got her friends to talk to the guys friends, and the guy ended up asking her out. but he didnt understand why he had to cause he thought they were already together1 just waited. eventually the guy was told by other girls that he needed to ask her out to make it officiali like open-ness, honesty and straight-forward-ness in a relationship. i'd prefer the girl to just come up to me and ask "whats going on." however others do not, and i think some girls will refuse to say that
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It sounds like the guy isn't looking for anything serious in a relationship right now or he just doesn't feel comfortable with you yet. Some guys can be emotionally cold due to past relationship problems and he may be keeping emotionally distant for that reason. He may just want to take things lightly and not get too deep, so ask him what he feels comfortable with.
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laststarfighter - you hit it on the head. we are 'dating' but keeping it casual. he's just coming out of a marriage where he got cheated on. so i can understand why he's apperhensive (i went through it too - a couple years ago) i also think one of the reasons if felt like a BC (botty call) is b/c we both have large appetites. i dont think i've ever met a man who could match me - and he does. it was great tho - good news always is tho.