hey whats up all, im new here. im a bit worried tho. i have a somewhat long distance relationship where i only see her on weekends and it reallly wears on me during the week, so i end up masturbating more then i have before. is this healthy for my relationship?
Welcome to the board. I hope we are able to answers some of your questions.
Absolutely! I think that long distance relationships are taxing at best. They often leave each other feeling empty and sad after spending the blissful weekend together.
Masturbation is a great way to relieve the stress and the tension caused by the anxiety of the weekly separation. It's perfectly normal and alright to do.
If you feel badly about your "personal quality time" alone, then I suggest you try mutual masturbation while engaging in phone sex. It could be a lot of fun for the both of you, telling each other about all the things you would like to do to them and how. Hearing them moan and breathing heavy is a huge sexual turn on for most men
But don't worry.... Taking care of things, taking things into your own hands, or having your own personal quality time, whatever you want to call it, it's all good bro, it's all good!
Hey I am in a similar situation except I do not get to see her for another month. Masturbation is perfectly normal and it is fine. Also if you two are sexually active with you masturbating and getting off it should help your sex life..
thanks guys, i love her and i dont wanna end it bc i dont see her a lot, and if it helps ill do it
Dude it is just masturbating. She does it too, I am sure. Now sleeping with another woman, yah that is no good, but if you are just masturabating it is okay. And yes it will it will make it so you do not cum so fast.