I was wonderin if some of u girls out there could help me out, im 17 m and tryin to get a girl. Thing is i dont even seem to be coming close, its not that im hard done by looks wise or anything its just im probably to quiet for my own good and dont go out that ( obviously one of the problem: i tend to get to wrapped up playing football) but when i do get out to the clubs i was wonderin how i could improve my situation. The few girls i have managed to talk to all said ' you're sooo quiet..' but its hard to change and i dunno loosen up or louden up. Any advice! thnx
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Lookin for some aid
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Really try to interact and be a part of the conversation-offer your opinion, tell jokes, etc. You don't have to be loud... Some girls really like quiet guys; however, when they first meet you, keep in mind that they are trying to get to know you, and they can't do that if you don't talk- body language only goes so far.
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Girls LOVE guys that play football! Go up to a girl and talk to her about things you like.. when she says she likes the same things.. just go off that. Don't feel awkward.. act like you're her friend and you've known her for awhile.. thats how I go about it!
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yeah you're right, i'll try that thnx
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I am a pretty quiet guy myself so I understand where you're coming from. I'm quiet because I don't like to talk about subjects I don't know to much about because I fear of being wrong (which is a bad thing). Be confident. A nice way to tell jokes if you aren't a really funny person just tease her on some subjects (do it with a smile though!). Good luck man, it will come with ease and soon you'll be a conversational-holic