I'm writing this on behalf of my boyfriend. He's addicted to masturbation, and basically it's ruining our sex life. I love having sex with him and wish that we could do it more often, but he is never in the mood because he masturbates so much. He acknowledges that sex with me is way better than masturbation, but that doesn't make him stop. He says that he just "doesn't think straight" when he wants to masturbate. It doesn't make sense to me because he could call me up at any time saying he's horny and I'd be there to do whatever he wanted. But instead he masturbates. After he orgasms it takes him quite a while to be up for another one, so if he masturbates it basically means we don't get to have sex that day. He is very rarely in the mood to have sex with me because of this, and it is hurting me emotionally.He says that it's not logical or rational, and that he is addicted to porn and masturbating. How can I help him? We want to have a healthier sex life. He wants to masturbate less so that he can have sex with me more often, because he really does enjoy sex with me a lot more. But he doesn't know how to stop.Any advice would really be appreciated.
hmmm thats peculiar , i mean if have a BASH then a girl said wanan have sex , i woulndt be saying no maybe you could try seeing what kinda porn he is in 2 then do a role play type sex thing
yh i could get of my arse and do soemthing with my life , but then i would have to re do my arse groove
That does sound like a real addiction. There may possibly be sex addiction classes in your area that he could go to.
Inilible is 100% right, he needs to see a sex addiction clinic or something or he may get into some very wierd stuff and trouble. Its O.K. for a 14 yo to masterbate a few times a day if they dont have a sex partner but shit. That should have curbed him having a partner. He' way too addicted.
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