You can't like who you hate... right??

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Short history, best friend related to worst enemy whom I've known since kindergarten. Separated after 6th grade, reunited at best friend's 15th birthday. Enemy is EVIL, RUDE, SELFISH, CONCEITED, HURTFUL, TORMENTING, DEVILISH! lol When I got to the party (2 hours late lol) I said hi to everyone and I'll admit, I'm one of those people who will get everyone hyped and talking because I can't sit still. So it was all good. But, He still is a pervert and a jerk and rude. But now he's all flirty. And yes... he was cute. I went to the bathroom to set things straight because I HATE HIM! I really do. Throughout the whole party he kept staring at me, talking to me, and most of all flirting. Flirt, flirt, flirt. And he was cracking jokes all the time and talking about how many girls he gets and hanging with his boys and whatnot. So I was just you know whatever. But he kept it going. And there were times when I let my guard down and I had to smack myself a couple of times to wake up and say HELLO ABI HE HARASSED YOU EVERYDAY OF YOUR LIFE. And then that anger and revenge came back. But sugar honey ice tea! He was sooooo fine. But I hate him. Looks are nothing. When I was arguing with my friend about how hott Julian McMahon was, he found out that Julian was 37 he started arguing with me and saying that he's old enough to be my daddy! He was like "now you could really call him daddy and mean it". He's so nasty. He was all touchy feely, pretending to sleep laying on my lap and stroking my leg. I was about to smack the crap out of him but he said "oh sorry I thought you were my dog" RUDE! To top it all off he was CONCEITED. Really conceited. Flexing his muscles, boasting about his deep voice and his dating record. Whatever man. I don't like him and yet I was still attracted to him. I was hoping it was just looks because at one point he took of his shirt and I was like "scuse me sir please put your shirt back on" and he goes "what, am I making you uncomfortable?" with a smirk on his stupid rude face. I wanted to slap him so bad. He was talking to me for a while and I just got annoyed and he said "you know you like me". And I told him "no I don't, I hate you". And he kept saying hate is so close to love. I told him he could keep saying that to himself. Well, then he says "I don't blame you. I'm just so damn hott. You're even hotter, wanna make out?" Besides the LAME joke, I wanted to stuff my shoe down his throat. But instead I threw it at him. But when I went to go pick it up he grabbed it and ran off with it so I'm hobbling down the block chasing him trying to get it. I EVENTUALLY got it back. But he sat down next to me saying perverted things and I was just really pissed. So he asks me what's wrong and I told him nothing and to leave me alone. But I ended up telling him that he's a real idiot and I said somemthing about him being slow. SOMEHOW he deciphered that into "you want it slow". I said "excuse me?" and he goes "you said you want it slow, I can give it to you slow". Bombaclaud... should have seen that coming. But yet despite how rude and perverted and overly conceited he was I still liked him but I didn't want to admit it. He left when we had a water fight but came back minutes after we were done and I was kind of drenched from all the water balloons and his nasty self goes "nice to know I make you wet". Stupid crap like that. At the end of the party he was just telling me about his school but he had me pinned up against the wall and I felt like some prisoner and he wouldn't let me leave... he got kind of nasty then so I was singing a little church song in my head to keep the dirty images out of it. Lord, I am so sorry. Forgive me. Now I feel so dirty especially for even feeling something for a guy like him. I hate him!! I HATE HIM!! I really do. Before I left he came up behind me and picked me up in the air like a jackbutt (lol) and just being, him. And I know he got my cell number because he was messing with my phone and putting crap on his phone. I really hate him. I do. But why do I have second thoughts? I know it's not physical attraction because there are much hotter guys than him. I'm so confused this is not like me. I don't like his kind lol.

Well, sounds like he is the kinda guy who tries to hurt/annoy you to get your attention. Its a normal tactic for when a young guy likes a girl. I think that on some level you know this so you are able to see the good parts of him, and you like them. He probably isn't really such a bad guy.I suggest that next time you see him and he is acting the same way, you call him on it. Just say something along the lines of "Ya know, you don't have to act like that, you already have my attention."

LOL somebody is smitten. I felt the sexual tension between the two of you just reading ur post. So what are you gonna do?

I agree completely. The whole time I was reading it I was thinking "awww..."

lol be quiet. I don't like him though. At all. He's so self-centered and nasty. There is no "good" in him. He made my life a living nightmare before so yes I'm holding a grudge.

To me, he sounds bad news. Watch yourself, first he showed off and was an ass, then he wanted sex and the whole time he was luring you and almost hypnotizing you with his words. If you would go out with hime, he will still be an ass to everyone you know.

well i guess you there could be some attraction,but i dont know you would would actually like him

yeah I think I'm actually going to have to try to x out the other "attractions"

Unless you want to use it as a way of revenge some how i go with him being bad news lol

Wow, I had to think it over a bit before I decided to read this. Ok on one hand while reading this I must admit that I sorta thought to myself this is gonna go somewhere(if onnly briefly). A lot of relationships start out this way, you think you hate someone, that they're assholes, but then sometimes they're kinda attractive(funny, charming, cute, w/e).
Then I thought it over and realized that you said he made your life MISERABLE! That's a pretty harsh(if perhaps true) statement about someone. I'm just sometwhat curios as to what he did to you, because he may just be trying to make your life miserable again.

Hmm I dunno..I think he does like you but doesn't put it across in the best way.

yes he did make my life miserable but then again from kindergarten to 6th grade... everything made the world seem like it was coming to end. No honestly... he tortured me. Lying, getting me in trouble, making fun of me (including my body figure parts, my skin color, my background, my religion), pulling pranks on me, and then as it progressed to older ages there was harrassment, debating me about everything I stood for and believed in, mocking me for getting good grades, making fun of me whenever I had bruises from beatings from my mom, scarying away every guy I liked. He used to call me oreo, a halfa, hapa, virgin Mary, manayack... the list goes on and on... AND ON AND ON!wow... I really do hate him. ALOT!

What is a hapa and a manayack????

they're both rude nicknames for people who are mixed or of mixed cultures. Manayack is the worst because it's just... rude. Basically an interracial slut or something.