k this has been happening to me lately,my gf and i have been having "sex" almost. which comes to my prob,I can get up well but,then when my girlfriend plays with it for like even 20 secs i cum.And same as if i just penetrate her with a condom i can only go for like 2-3 mins.Ive never had much sex this is like only our 6 times having sex and only girl ive had sex with and only once it worked for me was wehn i was drunk i actually couldnt cum took me like half an hour.shes almost came twice b4 i did once.So the other night we played around and i came within a min of her touching it....So i told her i prematured lol and she was ok with it,then i layed there for 10 mins and went again and i got like 3 mins in then cummed again,and then i gave up.I dont know if its normal for a new guy to sex to cum this fast this many times. or what.i cant be drunk all the time and have sex lol.I can also masturbate by myself and it takes me like 10 mins so what does it mean?I read on the start and stop technique and im thinking of buying some thicker condoms to see if they help last longer.I need to know if ive got a problem here and how to fix it.???or is it normal to cum fast when new to sex.?
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Premature problem
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Yes, it can be normal to cum so fast...and extremely frustrating. Unfortunately, it generally takes women longer than men and when the guy cums, it's over. Often long before she wants it to be.You seem to understand some of your triggers. You might try pleasuring her (foreplay) while avoiding the triggers that set you off. Some other options to delay your orgasm would be the start-stop method which helps you to become more in touch with your body, or simply to masturbate just before seeing her.I doubt that thicker condoms will help. She seems to be a real sexy lady that arouses you easily.
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i gotta say i hope its just nervousness cuz im breathing like crazy not controlled,alw2ays thinking in my head "hope it goes good" and stuff like that.Plus the fact that this is like my 6th time having sex,maybe im just not comfortable yet.i really belive its not a major problem cuz it dont happen all the time,and just by touching it i dont explode which i think would be an even worse problem.But since condoms only cost like $7 - $12 what do i got to lose on thicker ones lol willing to try anyways.I think i might be blessed in another way after cumming i just have to wait like 10 mins and i can go again i dont know if thats the same for everyone or not.Ill keep you guys posted on my next encounter with this and tell you how it goes,So maybe i can get some more help from there.
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Yes, with time you will get more comfortable - and you are indeed blessed being able to go again after ten minutes.
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You can learn to control your premature ejaculation, but the abilty to go again in 10 minutes? PRICELESS. Your girl will love you for it.
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with time you will learn how to control it yes, but you will also get use to the feeling and it wont feel as good (at least for me) after you have sex thousands of time with the same girl. Just when your about to cum think of something completly different to sex and it should stop the cum.
I had this problem, its east to fix just give it time.
