any dads ever been seen by son? how u handle the situation?
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Dad seen by son
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um no... I don't think my brothers ever saw my dad. but my dad caught my older broher once and he was not normal he runs downstairs and goes "man your brother is trippin! trippin! smoking some of that stuff!" lol here comes the teenager side of him.
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A very interesting question… what made you ask that?I am a Dad and I never had a problem letting my son see me naked. I have even seen him a many times walking to the bathroom to get into the shower trying to hide his morning wood sticking up in his boxers I have found him sleeping buck ass naked on the floor when I check on him before going to bed and put him back into bed and cover him up.Not a big deal. He’s my son!
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Thinking back I was much more comfortable with letting my dad see me naked when I had questions. Nothing sexual but if I had an issue I would only go to him...Seen him naked never really cared...just my dad, It is nothing for father son in my mind...
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All our kids have seen both the manthing and me naked, if we are in the shower or bath for example, or getting dressed. We don't walk around the house naked, but if they do see us naked we don't freak LOL its only natural and being ashamed or embarrassed about it will make them thing theres something wrong with it, and there isn't.
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I moved it here becasue it wasn't about masturbation. The thread was about "any dads ever been seen by son? how u handle the situation dad" when naked.. Is there a problem about me moving it?
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The OP never said either way. Maybe it was about masturbation.
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In reply to:"The OP never said either way. Maybe it was about masturbation"Maybe... Maybe not.....It was unclear and the thread didn't seem like it was about masturbation so I moved it... Again, is there a problem it was moved???.
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You weren't the original poster… Yes, you tried to take it that direction, but it didn’t seem to go that way… So I moved it
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Me and my hubby don't parade around naked but if the kids see us it's no big deal. My youngest usually comments on my big bum but we don't make an issue out of being naked. My hubby tends to cover up if the kids are around but only cos they giggle as they are now aware that boys are different and find it quite hilarious at the moment.I had a discussion with some friends a while back. My hubby is the girls biological dad to both my girls and will help them wash their hair etc but some people think it is wrong for a dad to bathe his daughter which I find silly but would be interesting to see what people think about it and if there is an age that may be deemed unacceptable to people.
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I used to bathe my daughter mainly becasue she would squirm so much when dealing with her hair that my wife got frustrated. She would keep still for me. But I pretty much quit helping her somewhere near school age when she started taking care of things on her own. I would help her brush and dry her hair afterwards though.
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Aww, that's really sweet ^_^ You must be one of those rare fathers who actually knows how to brush and blow dry your kiddo's hair... I hated it when my father 'tried' to do that when I was little! Gah, I swear he tried to yank my hair out on several occassions!
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Thanks... however conditioner and detanglers are life savers.
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Oh yes, they saved my hair many times! lol That and yelling "OUCH!" over and over again helped a little too!
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They are 9 and 7 but if left to wash their own hair they end up with half the shampoo still in their hair ha ha. I work shifts as well so it's not always possible for me to do it plus my hubby is a fantastic dad to the girls and always gets involved in everything so i am very lucky. He even IRONS!!My god I am blessed ha ha :grin:
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It's just so hard in todays society that to me and others, what is such an innocent thing can be perceived by others to be wrong or it shouldn't be done. It's just the way of the world I guess but it's sad that dad's everywhere are made to feel that they shouldn't be involved as much in case it's percieved wrongly.
On a brighter note I bathed the kids tonight. Once they stop using the side of the bath as a slide and soaking everywhere in sight they are getting better at doing their hair!!I just need to teach them to pick up the towels etc afterwards but I guess that's what us parents are here for!!
My youngest said today that she didn't want to get old like me (CHEEK) because everything wobbles. OMG my child is evil.am off to look in the mirror and see just how wobbly my bum has got!! :blush:
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Aww :grin: I was like then when I was ickle... I squirmed around to much and my dad had to wash my hair. I think he stopped when I was about six, and I had to wash it myself. The only reason it went on that long is because I have perforated eardrums and it was dangerous for me to have water in my ears :scream_cat: so they had to make sure I didn't get it in there lol :grin:
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LOL arn't kids great, I get the big bum thing too - damn them and their brutal honesty!!! - as for my manthing bathing my daughter he does it too, the hair thing especially cos it drives me insane, and yes it is sad that some people, and fathers themselves think twice about doing what is a natural thing with thier children.
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i have seen my dad naked once,but he doesn't know.i woke up 2 years ago at like three in the morning to go to the bathroom,and saw him making coffee completely nude(he goes to work at four) .shuddershaunts me everyday !
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I went on my LTT last night as have finished doing nights at work. I can hardly bloody walk this morning OMG everywhere aches. WHy can't exercise be fun??!! The kids just stood there watching me like I was a crazy woman.mmmmm maybe I am. Cream egg anyone??!!xx