ok to start off im 16 will be 17 in 2 weeks, my brother who wants to take me to a "whore house" like he calls it for my birthday. Let me just say that i have never even had a girlfriend yet or done anythign sexual. My bro is one of those party guys who was the popular kid in highschool and that goes to clubs all the time. My problem is that im really nervous about this and my first thought was i should't but then again what teenage guy does not want to get laid? i dont know what i should do, if i say no my bro will think im gay or a loser or something, im not really sure what i want, would i be a bad person if i went?
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Hard problem
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no that wouldn't make you a bad person.if your not ready for sex or that kinda stuff,don't go.if your not ready,thank your bro for thinking about you,and just explain your not ready.
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If you don't want to, stand up for yourself. Say "thanks, but no thanks". No need to say more.I suspect many guys dragged to brothels on these occasions do no more than have a chat to the girl.
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As others have said if this is something you don't want to do than don't do it. You don't have to explain anything to your brother, it's your life not his. Don’t let people pressure you into something you don’t want to do so easily. Take control and be yourself.
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thats a cool bro but yh , no need to do things you dont want to
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In reply to: ok to start off im 16 will be 17 in 2 weeks, my brother who wants to take me to a "whore house" like he calls it for my birthday. Let me just say that i have never even had a girlfriend yet or done anythign sexual. My bro is one of those party guys who was the popular kid in highschool and that goes to clubs all the time. my bro is pretty much the same way. he said things like that too.. only he said he'd hook me up when i turned 18 at one of his parties. i dk if he said it to get a laugh from his friends or if he meant it. b4 i turned 15 i told them (them > family not his friends) a big secrit and he never said nothing after that. BUT April when i turned 18 he had a party for my 18th at one of his friends place and he had some girls come that would do just about anything... i didn;t hook up wiht no one but my gf (me and her had our own party in Josh's bedroom...lol) but she wasn't to happy about me getting a topless lap dance (from one of those girls come that would do just about anything) lol Josh )josh isn't my bro..he's his friend)ended up hooking up with the one hahaha... In reply to: My problem is that im really nervous about this and my first thought was i should't but then again what teenage guy does not want to get laid? on some days i don't want to get laid. fuck i don't even want anything to do with sex...or girls. if u dont want to ... don't! In reply to: i dont know what i should do, if i say no my bro will think im gay or a loser or something, im not really sure what i want, would i be a bad person if i went? my bro isn't that low (urs probly isn't either)if i told him no he'd be ok wiht it... even b4 the secrits came out. and if u did... lots of people do that ..not like u got to tell any one any way.
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u dont have to do anything u dont want,just tell him ur not ready,or whenever he shows up to take u leave before he gets there,go to a friends or sumthing.