Hey I want to tell you a story about my family, cause I think It'll make me feel better... Please answer what I can do....So.. here it starts..It all started when my sister went to college in other city and there's just me, my mom and dad. I'm in high school (15 years old) and my father's my teacher - he teaches me physics...I think he's cheating my mom with my math teacher... i told my sister but she don't belive it. I didn't seen them having sex or anything but they always look each other with that eww look if you know what I mean... And last week our class, my math teacher and my dad (what a surprise) went on some trip for a week, and they always stayed up late and talked, danced, my friend even saw them when they kissed and we heard 'those noises' from their room... My mom's just stupid. She doesn't know anything about me. She doesn't take care for me. She tried to hit me but I protected myself with my hand and I had a bruise on my hand for a few days... She doesn't listen me. She doesn't know anything about my problems She thinks she's always right. She and my dad always fight. And they say that it's my fault. And when I say that they should think of how it would affect me, they just say that I must shut the hell up cause it's my fault they're doing this. She told me how she knows that I'll never get a boyfriend and I don't have friends (which is so not true because I know almost every kid in our school) and that she hates my voice and I must change it (ok I hate my voice too but come on) and It was just too much... I started to cut... I told my friends about my life and they are trying to help me as much as they could but they can't fix everything...Please help me... P.S. Sorry for my mistakes, my english is not so good, it was good but it getted worse...
My stupid family
Hi Torrchy, welcome to AfraidToAsk. Your English is very good.
It sounds like your mother thinks the marriage is in trouble because of the stress of having children, when it may be that your father finds it as hard to cope with her as you do.
I think you shouldn't say anything about your father's affair with your maths teacher. It would just get you blamed. It's your parents' business - leave it to them. At home, try to keep a low profile. Be with friends as much as you can - they will help give you the emotional support you don't get at home.
Thanks for the advice, I'm already spending a lot of time with my friends, but ya know, I can't avoid my home forever... It's so stupid, really, when your family hates you...
Hey buddy, I can't really say much, but hang in there. You'll reach a point somewhere down the line where someone will love you a lot more then you can expect! Cheer up :blush: