I HATE THIS SHIT

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Ok Im wondering what i should do. Im so over my mom. Shes done so much to piss me off. What has made it go over the edg is she calld my Girl Friend of whom i love a Whore. Im thinkin about leaveing and goin to stay with my Girl Friend or my dad. but my dad lives farther away. What should i do. Plz Help

No-one should call someone's girlfriend a whore. Having said that, can I urge you to make no hasty decision, but sleep on it and consider the pros and cons when you are less furious. Decisions made in anger are sometimes regretted later.

i have similar problems with my mum, and i was considering moving out and living with my dad. but i think you should wait, dont make a rash decision just yet. why dont u calmly sit down and tlak to her about how u feel - that's what i did with my mum and it worked very well. talk to her and see how that goes - dont move out just yet...xXxSamxXx

so she called your gf a whore in front of her? u should defnietly talk to yor mom about this.

How old are you?What reasons did she have to call your girlfriend a whore?

im only 15. The only reasion she would have that i know of is shes a Bitch. Shes never even talked to my Girl Friend

well that's sort of a little excuse to "hate" your mother. unless she said it in front of your girlfriend that's another story. my parents have called some of the guys that I simply hang out with like brothers the worst things just because of the their past issues. and had a hard time accepting my bf. I tell my bf not to take them seriously because they're just sick

She dident say it in front of her but she did the nex best thing. I play games and us a program named TeamSpeak to voic chat while im in the games and i had my mic on ahd when she said it my GF herd her. so ya next best thing

But I'm sure that if your mom actually KNEW the mike was on, she wouldn't have said that, be fair.

And you should get your girl friend to at least meet your mom, like at dinner or something, so then your mom can realize that your girl friend is a very nice young lady; sometimes mothers are just very worried about their sons and who they date. She wants you to live a very fulfilling life as an adult, and she is probably concerned that who you are choosing to spend time with now, who you may even say you love, is not the best choice for your future life. So I would recommend doing something with your girl friend and mom, to just have them both calm down...

I'm sure your girl friend is very upset about this too, which is very probably fueling your fire.

Furthermore, you yelling and getting mad at your mom is NOT going to solve this at all, it's just going to make your mom even madder at your girl friend, and make her like her less, which is NOT what you want.

For your mom-meets-gf date, if you decide to do it, you could go bowling, play frisbee golf, watch a movie, eat, etc, something family friendly. To prepare for this, I would ask your mom to please consider (this MUST be optional for her, do not demand that she do anything) appologizing to your girl friend for what she said. Likewise, prepare your girl friend for your mom, like her type of humor, how she feels about certain issues, etc. I have nearly put my foot in my mouth meeting people's parents by saying something about Pres. Bush... It took some VERY smooth talking to get out of that hole.

ask your mom to aplogize? then follow the advice of the post above